i feel like i cannot have any oppurtunities in life because they are mostly run by men and i dont have...?

Question

any sort of a chest. (breasts) i mean, i feel like im just not good enough because the girls with bigger chests have all the luck with boyfriends and marriage and jobs and things. please do not yell at me or call me stupid or anything. i just want some evidence to show that my thoughts are incorrect

i mean, isnt that what men care about almost the most of all? it sure seems that way.

Answer 1

lol

Answer 2

Only the stupid men, the unconscious.

Don't have any opportunities in life? You speak of two different catagories, social and professional. They are different.

Professionally: I used to be self-employed, fixing apartments. People from the neighborhood were always asking me if I needed any help, because they were unemployed. I told them that if they could find their own customers they would never need an employer. Of couse that meant they would have to learn how to do something useful, a skill, whether a trade or sales or whatever.

Socially: Boyfriends and marriage. You will notice the people on TV and elsewhere, on purpose direct the viewer's attention to their good parts to distract from bad parts. This is called 'social engineering' and is a performance art which can be learned. Also called marketing.

You don't want men looking at your chest anyway, you want them looking in your eyes. Been working on the light in there? Bring their attention to your eyes by looking them directly in their eyes. Work on your smile, it's a powerful weapon and marketing tool.

Change your wardrobe. Do you have nice leggs? Are you smart? Do you know how to control a conversation? Join toastmasters to learn how to speak in public. Develope "stage presence". Use The Force. Yoga or martial arts or ballet to learn to move gracefully.

Your thoughts are incorrect because you and most everyone else have been brainwashed by Maddison Ave (advertising). Where do they find all those beauties? They don't look anything like people on the streets of America or anywhere else.

I don't know how old you are, but look around. Your fellow humans are not an impressive lot. The competition is weak. You can beat them all. Right? Right!

Learn to be in command of yourself. There is doing, not doing, and things that people do. The first two are deliberate and for a reason. The third comprises most of human activity and is meaningless. Rise above the crowd.

Answer 3

I guess men and women have their places some what, but it doesn't have to be that way. Get an education and be yourself. There are some stern woman in the world that run country's, businesses or anything else they what to. As for as guys be good hearted, smart and strong. You will have the smart and confident guys wanting you because you are a true companion instead of an expense. The bimbo's are only good for one thing, no heart involved. Have a pretty smile and charming attitude and the guys will flock to you, then it's up to you to chose which one you want. :) Focus on what you want in life and go for it, be a lawyer and if they give you any sh*t sue them. Have Fun Girl!!

Answer 4

Big boobs are not where it is at.

I would rather be around a small women with boobs that fit her body. That is what is nice looking.

Now as far as getting a job because of big boobs might be true in come cases. But most employers do not want good looking women working for them because the guys will talk to her all the time and she can't get her job done. And being the guys are bothering her and keeping her from doing her job who is doing their job at that time? No one right.. So one pretty woman in the plant will have a loss of two jobs.

Answer 5

Actually, because of all our new employment laws and because employer's need to meet a quota of women and minorities.. You have better chances of getting hired as an equally qualified male.
Yay.. im lucky .. im a minority and a female!!
aND the chest part.. i think ur main problem is your lack of self confidence. People can tell when you don't think you're good enough.. it shows. And that's the main thing that will hold you back. Not your bra size.. besides, push up bras can do wonders.!

Answer 6

Save your breath honey!!! Don't tell me about boobs, my whole family is small breasted. And they have all managed to get married at least once. Some have actually managed to stay married. And the others all have boyfriends. Oppertunites don't come around by your boob size. And frankly if I were a guy I wouldn't date you either. I can't stand some whinny person that is going to whine about thier lot in life. Go join the amish and do some praying or something!!!

Answer 7

i, too, am very flat. if i should put it that way.
in fact, if someone were to offer me a free boob job tomorrow, i would take it! i have also felt very insecure about my chest size and thus my level of attractiveness.

yet, my boyfriend loves my boobs!

and although i would accept a boob job, i am confident in my skin, as a competent, intelligent, and beautiful girl. i am even beginning to accept and like my small boob size. there are many girls out there who are also small. i think that women who have confidence (sorry, i know it's cliche) are the ones who will be truly successful, and come across the greatest opportunities and the most fulfilling, loving relationships.

ps. not all guys prefer big boobs.

Answer 8

if you are going to base your success as a person on whether or not you have a certain physical attribute then you've already failed...its not about boobs or men or luck or about what you think anyone else has....its about you making your own luck and taking advantage of any opportunitiy that comes your way. don't fall for the crap that you aren't good enough, its a lie and its designed by unhappy people who want others to be unhappy with them....you will either succeed or fail based on your own actions, don't blame others, don't justify your failure or give away your success to anyone but yourself.....your thoughts have been found incorrect....now what are you going to do about it?

Answer 9

Men aren't all obsessed with big boobs, sweetie. It's much more important that you respect yourself and others. My girlfriend is very flat-chested but I wouldn't trade her for any other 10 women on earth. It's the size of her heart, not her bra, that matters to me, and I think most guys would agree with me.
OK, so you don't have a big chest. You have other gifts. Find some way to accent what you DO have to offer, and please stop beating yourself up.

Answer 10

I'm a small white woman with small breasts. To you I say, we aren't at anymore of a disadvantage than anyone else. If you believe you can do it, you will. If you think you're not given fair opportunities because you're a white woman with small breasts...then you won't go anywhere. Part of being a woman today is overcoming stereotypes and breaking barriers. Confidence and courage are all you really need. Goodluck.

Answer 11

believe me sweetie it isnt all about the way you look , more than half of it is your luck ..
I have it all , I am very skinny and very tall , good face , highly educated and I had very bad lucks with my guys .. and my sister who never finished highschool , she is short and fat and all her life she was a junkie got in luck and married a very rich guy and drives a different sport car every year ..
you have to be lucky in this world not good looking and smart