ok theres this guy i really really like and with all my heart and he just makes my day perfact cause when i look at him i feel like hes the one and im really shy around him and i really want him to know how i feel about him but im to shy to ask him cause in 4th and 5th grade i asked him out and both times he said no and thats so embarrising and others say that he likes me and i dont want to ask him out cause its so embarrising and i hate to be embarrist heck everyone does but my heart says go for it what do you have to lose and my mind says dont you will be sorry and i stay with my brain on this one but i really want to follow my heart so what should i do
2006-08-16 17:22:50 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Fashion & Accessories
its adveous he knows you like him let him come to you.
2006-08-16 17:33:05 · answer #1 · answered by jon i 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I am understanding you correctly, you like this guy a lot. You asked him out when you were in 4th AND 5th grade. Both times he turned you down. Now you want to ask him out again.
Forget the past. At 4th and 5th grade he probably wasn't interested in girls yet. That's really too young to be dating anyway.
Ask him again, but this time be specific. Don't say "You want to go out sometime?" Ask him to go to a place at a certain time and date. "You want to go see *insert movie name here* with me on Friday night?" Movies are a great first date, you don't have to do much until it's over, then you have something to talk about after. Asking him about something specific makes him make a decision. You come across as confident, and that's attractive. If he says he's busy Friday, ask about Saturday. If he still says he's busy, he will suggest another time, say nothing, or say he's busy next weekend too. If he suggests another time, success! If he says nothing or that he's busy next weekend too, he's blowing you off. Even if he says no, without think it over, you've lost nothing but a few minutes of your time. Just say OK and walk away. The embarrassment will fade and you'll find another guy who is worthy of you.
Listen to your brain, but follow your heart. If they aren't in accord, you need to figure out what is more important to you. In this case, which is worse? Spending you time wondering "what if" or having a few days of embarrassment until you get over it? Which would you prefer, knowing for sure one way or another, or wishing you knew? Make a decision, we can only advise, not make it for you.
2006-08-16 17:39:58 · answer #2 · answered by welches_grape_jelly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask again or else you will never know what could have happened. If he rejects you, you know you'll make it; you did before.
2006-08-16 17:28:12 · answer #3 · answered by Dee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it!!! good luck!!!
2006-08-16 17:59:12 · answer #4 · answered by SunnySmile83 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋