I want to make new friends, but I really don't seem to get what to say when I walk up to a person. I need to learn how to be more friendly and better at at opening a conversation. Can anyone help me, please?
2006-08-16 17:16:48 · 6 answers · asked by imagination_inevitable 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Just build up your confidence and self esteem in yourself. Start slowly. I know you have friends that you act wild around. It's according to the people you surround yourself by. Always try to surround yourself around positive people. They have an open mind to how different others are and you will feel more comfortable around them,
2006-08-16 17:23:50 · answer #1 · answered by hodgesandguy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have trouble finding the right thing to say then dont say any thing......ask questions! People find this nice because it makes people think u are interested in them and what they have to say. When you walk up to a person just start out with the usual hello etc..... then ask a casual question and this will usually start up a conversation. Good luck!
2006-08-17 00:22:39 · answer #2 · answered by Hilllbilly_gal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way to be talkative is....
-to be confident with ur self
-to be possitive
-ask questions about them
-let the walls down in ur mind that every move u make and wat ever u say will make the person hate u
-dont judge u or the other person
hope that helps
2006-08-17 00:29:08 · answer #3 · answered by Mae-Day 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it takes practice. push yourself into talking with people, but start slowly. think of it as you're starting to exercise. it hurts at the beginning but then it starts to become easier and easier.
it also helps to be knowledgable about pop culture, sports events, current affairs and stuff like that that appeals to many people in order to be able to chat more easily with them.
2006-08-17 00:24:32 · answer #4 · answered by semma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be you self. follow you heart when you got to the person you think or want to be your friend. I am not talkative either , but sometimes you do not need to be talkative to have friends. Just be who you are and have self esteem.
2006-08-17 00:24:24 · answer #5 · answered by tangind 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it helps if there are others around, it easier in a group......
2006-08-17 00:27:42 · answer #6 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋