ok well im 13 years old and i just broke up with my boy friend randy i broke up with him because he cauld me a B**** 1 time before we broke up and now that we broke up he called me a b****
4 more times now heres the punch line in the heat of the moment he's like , "Youre goin to slow for me and i dont think youre ready for a guy like me" sence i got mad at him because i said mabye we should brake up did i do the right thing and did i go to slow for only 3 weeks of knowing him and then he wants to make out
2006-08-16 16:49:37 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You have a great head on your shoulders!! Take your time and go as slow as you want. If he's calling you names, that's abuse. 3 weeks at age 13 is not to slow, good grief. Obviously you were not comfortable with the situation and had every right to say NO!!
Mom of 2 daughters 15 and 22
2006-08-16 16:58:26 · answer #1 · answered by Amy S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen, I'm 17 so I will do my best to answer. I got my fist kiss @ 14 it was just a little peck. I didnt get my first real french kiss until I was 16 almost 17, actually it was about a month ago, it was in a randomn hookup. then I eneded up givin him head. however I DONT suggest doin it that way. do whatever u feel comfortable doin and dont let ur boyfriend pressure you. its MUCH better to take things slow which I KNOW I didnt and I regret it a little bit now. The ONLY reason why I went so fast was cuz my curiosity REALLY got to me and I was wayy to horny for my own good. NOW I KNOW he wont look @ me in ANY other way then a 'she gave me head' type of way. just make sure u do that stuff with your boyfriend and not just some guy who is extremelly horny like you might be. I HOPE THIS HELPED AND GOOD LUCK GURL!
2006-08-16 23:59:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are not going too slow. Don't ever let a boyfriend push you to do something you're not ready to do. And definitely don't let any bf call you a B***. You're only 13, no need to rush into having a bf. Enjoy your young years because most of your life will be adult years with lots of responsibilities and problems in daily life.
2006-08-16 23:55:29 · answer #3 · answered by curtf1964 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look im an 18 year old guy, and can tell you, yes you totally did the right thing. listen at thirteen you kind of have to go slow, and if he doesn't realize this or is completely forcing the situation, then you really shouldn't stay with him. if he trully cared he wouldn't be calling you a ***** that many times, once is bad, but mistakes happen, but that many times is just plain wrong. don't worry you sincerely did the right thing, your only thirteen and have plenty of time to find the right one. you can get so many better guys than this one, trust me. just believe in yourself.
2006-08-17 00:00:27 · answer #4 · answered by funkfighter45 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe me honey you will meet many like him in your life and as time goes by you will learn to just pass them by. There are too many nice guys out there to settle for less. As young as you are don't get serious yet, just talk to them all and learn the many things you need so you can make it through this life. I hope with asking this question you will really read the answers and take them to heart. Have a great young life before all the heartbreaks start coming. Good luck.
2006-08-16 23:58:39 · answer #5 · answered by unwantedname 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to understand men think of 3 things, sleep, food and sex, not necessarily in that order...the order changes depending on the time of day and last time they did those three activities. If you are uncomfortable with him, just dump him. In time you will loosen up or you will find a man that is desperate enough to put up with you. Your life is not going to end tomorrow. I'll bet you by the time you finish reading this you will have a new boyfriend...BTW get someone that is not 2 grades above you...Upperclassmen expect their girlfriends to put out.
2006-08-16 23:58:03 · answer #6 · answered by want it bad 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok yes you might be young to do some things but your not young to make out with your bf. Hey thats the way life is but if your the type of girl thats not like that well he has to understand. And by the way how okd is this boy ???????? Its ok to m ake out with him as long as he doesn't try to get into your pants.
2006-08-17 00:14:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congratulations on having a good head on your shoulders. How disrespectful he was. That was the beginning of a bad relationship. You have so much ahead of you. Don't rush into anything. It sounds like all he wanted you for was to experiment and add you to his list of accomplishments. Keep up with your good judgment.
2006-08-17 02:25:41 · answer #8 · answered by HolidayGurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did fine. Just decide what you want and know that you're doing the right thing. Let guys know if they say you're going too slow ... l that they need to go somewhere else
2006-08-17 00:06:29 · answer #9 · answered by Sam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about that asshole, he only wants sex from u.
At 13 u have a long way before u can find someone that really cares about u and respects u.
2006-08-16 23:58:53 · answer #10 · answered by ani2525 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋