Hey there :(
I am extremely worried and I hope you can help me out. On the 22nd of July, me and this guy were messing around. He might have had some pre *** on his finger and he fingered me. But before he fingered me he was rubbing against my underwear for a good 20 seconds. And when he actually did touch me, he never actually went inside my vagina, he just was in
the general area. Taking that into consideration, I was also on the 2nd day of my period. I am so scared, is there any chance I might be preganant? My period is due on the 21st of this month, and about midway into my cycle (august 2) I had slight spotting. Is this ovulation spotting? I have asked around and people have said the odds areVERY very unlikely that I am pregnant.. I just need to be calmed down, I guess....
I understand I am too young to be doing this, and do realize that Im not ready. I would just like your input. Am I stressing for no reason? College is about to start soon and I have so much on my mind. Anyone?
2006-08-16 16:44:58 · 17 answers · asked by twilight_dreamer 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
It is very unlikely that you would be pregnant in this manner
2006-08-16 16:49:53 · answer #1 · answered by PediRN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speaking from experience, the more stressed out you allow yourself to get over this, the later your period this month might be. I agree with the other people you've talked to -- the chances of your being pregnant from that are very unlikely, especially if he was rubbing your underwear for a bit before anything else happened. So relax, and since you're already worried now, don't let it bother you if it's the 23rd or 24th or so before you actually start this month. Stress does evil things to your cycle, but if I had to bet on it, if that's all that happened, I would bet you're not pregnant. Hope this helps!
2006-08-16 23:53:10 · answer #2 · answered by lauramae917 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see that conception would occur, considering that ovulation didn't occur until around August 4th. Also, he rubbed his fingers on your panties first, removing any trace of pre***.
So... I feel you may be stressing out just a bit. Don't worry about it too much or you will mess up your cycle, from the stress.
If you have a 28 day cycle, like most women, then your expected period should start on or around August 18, 2006.
If you haven't started by a week past, take a home pregnancy test to assure yourself.
Good Luck!
2006-08-17 00:06:15 · answer #3 · answered by Regina R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a doctor but I'm pretty sure that the spotting you had can be from 1. stress, 2. weight gain or loss 3. new birth control pills if you are on them or the Depo shot and most likely ovulation. Take a deep breath, wait out till you get either your period or if you don't get it the first day take an at home test right when you wake up from sleep and then go from there. Most likely you are just stressing a lot. Spotting can happen when you stress. Good luck at College though!
2006-08-16 23:56:39 · answer #4 · answered by aheikens 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you arent pregnant. you can get pregnant from pre *** so just be careful next time. since you are on your period it would be hard for you to get pregnant. the menstral cycle is the shedding of the uterine lining from the UNFERTILIZED EGG burrowing down and releasing it. Once an egg is relased from the ovary it only lives for 24 hours then dies!. so it is very very very very unlikely that you are pregnant! so calm down and if your period is late its probably just cause of the stress your causing yourself allover this. maybe you should get on some birth contorl pills and me more careful next time.
college is about to start for me too! sophmore year in a community college oh joy =) sort of excited though, how about you?
2006-08-16 23:52:45 · answer #5 · answered by laa dee da 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea, you could be pregnant! Whatever "pre*** on his finger. . ." is, it could be very potent. I would suggest you save your panties just in case you need a DNA sample of the guy you're messing with who may deny being the father of your baby.
I'm sure your parents told you not to let any guy get an inch above your knee. You didn't listen did you? Well, the consequences can cost you the college you think you're about to start, plus other life changing events. Don't be stupid again.
2006-08-16 23:56:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's very unlikely you're pregnant, so calm down.
Use this as a reminder the next time you think about doing something like this with your boyfriend. You keep on, and one day you WILL be pregnant.
2006-08-17 10:16:36 · answer #7 · answered by brevejunkie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already asked this question today.
It is very rare that a person gets pregnant without actually having sex, it does happen, but rarely.
The bigger question is if you know that you are too young to be doing this then why are you doing this? Anyone who is about to start college should know where babies come from.
2006-08-16 23:51:25 · answer #8 · answered by yzerswoman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you're not pregnant from getting fingered or from being rubbed against. I f you have to ask a question like that you dont need to even get fingered.
2006-08-16 23:51:06 · answer #9 · answered by Mrs Newman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were on your second day of menstruation, then you don't have anything to worry about. Just take this as a lesson learned. When you get to college focus on your studies, party very lightly and be happy.
2006-08-16 23:52:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no way you could be pregnant. Any sperm that was on his finger was long dead after he touched you. Try to relax, lots of stress can cause you to be late for your period. Take care.
2006-08-16 23:51:00 · answer #11 · answered by BAnne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋