what do guys find in me,i'm very attractive,but they are too protective,jealous,and freaking stalkers. this boy like me back in the 8th grade, and still stalking me and saying i bet not catch you with no one else, and always saying you going to be my girlfriend.Now,on the other hand my friend who i knew like for4 or 5 years likes me, now since he attends my school and ask me will i be his girlfriend.I'd rather be his girlfriend, but my friends will ******* die if i chose to like him.Also, my next door neighbor grandson likes me and attend my school.
2006-08-16 16:29:58 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
he says he gonna hit me when he see me at school. He can't get gfs that's why he want to be with me.
2006-08-16 16:34:53 · update #1
My advice is...
A) Get some new, better friends. Those people sound worthless, to me.
B) Get the police on the guy threatening you, if he doesn't leave you alone. Pretend you don't even know him.
C) At your young age, having a boyfriend shouldn't be a issue at all; your future is. Stick to those books and start preparing for life after school.
Good luck, kiddo!
2006-08-16 16:57:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
you mentioned liking this friend you have known for 4 to 5 years and liking him and wanting to be his girlfriend.....why on earth would you let your friends stop you from dating someone you like? Does it really matter what they think? Are they the ones dating him? No, I dont think so and furthermore if they are real friends they will respect your decisions and let you be.......if you are happy then they should be happy for you not get upset because they dont agree with your choice of guys.
If I was you I would seriously tell these other guys to back off or you will press charges....they have no right to harrass you or stalk you......its ridiculous and you dont have to put up with it. You should tell your parents about this other boys and have them contact the authorities and deal with them.....that way they wont bother you and might think twice about ever doing it to someone else.
Good luck to you. God bless.
2006-08-16 16:46:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
tell the dude that said he would hit you, that if he does you will not only press charges, but you will tell all your other guy friends what he did, including your brothers (if you have any) and they will all beat him up, so he had better shut his F*$^ing mouth about all that type of stuff or you will make him pay for ever threatening you like that.
as far as the other guys, o well, they will get over it. choose the guy you want to be with, and if any other guy starts bothering you scream at the top of your lungs "help this guy is trying to touch me!!!" sure you might come off as a bit pysco, but hey, im sure if you did that to all they guys you told to leave you alone, i bet they would.
2006-08-16 16:40:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
It sounds to me like you need to talk to an adult that can help you get a restraining order on him. He obliously needs so anger management classes and you should not have to deal with that stuff being only 15 yrs. old. You need to talk to your mom or dad about it and have them take care of the rest. Get back with me soon by im of e-mail and let me know how it all works out for ya. I am 24 years old and have been through it. I have three children and going through a divorce because he was too posessive. I feel bad that he is putting you through that crap. Anyway please tell someone about it and get help before he does do something bad to you or your family. Write me back soon and let me know how it goes.
2006-08-16 16:48:22 · answer #4 · answered by susan_manley2001 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Forget what your friends say, go with what you feel for this guy if you like him. I suggest you report this little turkey who is talking you if he gets to be any more of a weirdo. You need to learn how to tell guys to back off. Stop trying to be "nice" and be real. When someone becomes jealous, protective, or a pain, let them know you don't like it.
2006-08-16 16:39:15 · answer #5 · answered by MadforMAC 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You're only 15, worry about boys later. Focus on school first.
2006-08-16 16:35:49 · answer #6 · answered by MR. RETARDO VI 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
girl u have to go with ur heart, at 15 boys really dont kno what there feeling r. girls dont either actually. uve got a lot of time ahead of u. years actually. just take ur time and dont let any guy tell u what to do. if u like this one guy then go for it, and if another guy wants to hit u then report him for abuse cause he shouldnt b doing that. nor pressuring u to go with him
2006-08-16 16:38:05 · answer #7 · answered by fuzzycakes 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't pay any attention to any of them.Just concentrate on your studies.Your in High school so your grades are important for college.
2006-08-16 23:47:31 · answer #8 · answered by singler 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't mess with any of them
2006-08-16 16:39:08 · answer #9 · answered by greenluxi 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋