I have never even gotten a detention. In 8th grade i was voted teacher's pet and sweetest. I go to church every week. And i get really good grades. There is this guy that got kicked out of another school and is now in my school. I started talking to him and became pretty good friends with him. Then i found out that he drinks, smokes, and has even stolen a car. But i really like him and if he didn't do any of these things i would go out with him. Not only with behavior, but with everything, i think he is my exact opposite. religion, political views, grades, interests, friends, everything!! What should i do?
2006-08-16 16:28:31 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Just don't date him...
I was a lot like you. I was teachers pet. I had a crush on the bad boy at my school. I even day dreamed that I was dating the "bad boy". I imagined him fighting some other guy over me. I pictured us getting married one day and riding around on a motorcycle (I know... it sounds totally lame now).
But, trust me... a bad boy will NOT make you happy. In fact, they will make you quite miserable. I started going out with a guy in 9th grade who was kinda bad boy (he is worse NOW though than he was back then) and he cheated on me, fought with me all the time, made me feel like s***. But, my husband is a sweet guy and I love him more than anything in the world. Don't settle for someone who will treat you like crap... because I guarentee he most likely will.
2006-08-16 16:51:37 · answer #1 · answered by Ashley P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's just asking for heartache. I know boys like that are REALLY fun and exciting. And its even cool to date your complete opposite, that can be really interesting. But, bad guys like that will only break your heart and mess up your life. I once dated a guy who was bad, but he wasn't that bad He developed a heroin addiction (freshman year!!) and ended up leaving me for my then best friend. Then he ended up in a juvenile home for assult with a deadly weapon. The badness just tends to multiply. And people always judge you by the company you keep, sad but true. And if you think you can change him, its impossible. My advice stay FAR away--if you want to be friends with him thats cool but don't date him! Feel free to e-mail me if you need anymore help!
2006-08-16 17:42:33 · answer #2 · answered by barbieisagoddess 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly? I think you should forget about dating him. He could have a bad influence on you. He's obviously got issues he's dealing with. Sounds like you're headed in the right direction and you don't want anything to spoil that. There's lots of guys out there. No need to date this one. Keep him in your prayers.
2006-08-16 16:34:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from him ! You seem like you are a very smart girl. He could end up being in the way of your future. You do not need something like that happen. Be nice to him if you see him , just do not hang out with him or anything like that.
2006-08-16 16:37:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, these types of people are always exciting at first as they bring in an air of mystery.........Eventually the real him will come out and if he does all of the things you say, why not just stay friends with him and not date???? You'll save yourself a whole lot of grief in the end........Take care, dear............
2006-08-16 16:33:40 · answer #5 · answered by mizzzzthang 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should stay away from him. You sound like a smart girl why mess up your life hanging around someone like this person. Lots of "good girls" are attracted to "bad boys" but it could cause you lots of problems.....continue to be smart and leave him alone.
2006-08-16 16:37:55 · answer #6 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you want to be friends with him, it's OK, but be very careful to keep it on your terms. You will be tempted immediately to get drawn into his world. I think you'll know quite soon whether he genuinely wants to turn his own life around, or whether he's more likely to be a bad influence on you.
2006-08-16 16:33:56 · answer #7 · answered by nosoccertyvm 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're probably trying to experience (or know what it's like) to do all these things through someone else... him. There's nothing wrong with it unless you start following his footsteps.
2006-08-16 16:35:35 · answer #8 · answered by Private Account 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
keep searching for that good guy, this guy is a complete opposite of you. I don't think it would work out and I don't think your parents would approve.
2006-08-16 16:34:54 · answer #9 · answered by Backwoods Barbie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if u know these all things , why are u trying to go out him , dont go if u dont want to get your *** in trouble , sweety
2006-08-17 01:38:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋