My friend is 33 four kids and working on child #5,she's on section 8 and her boyfriend is a big time drug dealer,all of the kids are his,the thing is she's been reported and he has the money but won't put her and the kids in a house.He told me his job is to keep my friend bare footed and pregnant.I have more than enough room in my house for her and the kids but my fiancee told me no way.We live in a gated community and he said we have worked hard for what we have and he don't want no drama.Sh has 5 days to be out what can I do to help her?
2006-08-16 16:26:12 · 8 answers · asked by dccuttie75 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Tell her that although you love her you just can't help her pay for her own mistakes.Some people never learn how to take care of themselves b/c someone is always bailing them out.She's 33 and has decided to have 5 kids,it's way past growin up time.You won't be doin her a favour to bail her out.Tell her to go to a shelter,she'll have to get a job but they'll help with childcare.You can be a good friend without having to raise a 33 year old woman and her kids.
2006-08-16 16:37:12 · answer #1 · answered by hippiegirl672003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to the cops and make sure that they know that the guy is a doper. If she is staying with this loser, you do not want her in your house. She should get to a women's shelter program and never see the guy again. But that is probably not what she will do.
2006-08-16 23:45:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww, i'm really sorry to hear that
can u kik ur fiancee out of ur house? or is it his house too? try to find someone else that might be able to help
2006-08-16 23:35:22 · answer #3 · answered by LaBeLlAvItA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your fiance is right, you dont owe it to her to take care of her and her family. Tell her to go to a shelter (and to leave that man)!
2006-08-16 23:33:27 · answer #4 · answered by Hilllbilly_gal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say keep tryin to perswade ur finacee to let dem move in and say dat u are the only one she got
2006-08-16 23:33:54 · answer #5 · answered by ~L3_L3~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take her in your house and ignore your bf
2006-08-16 23:32:25 · answer #6 · answered by osunumberonefan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call the churches in your area sometimes they will help people in need.good luck.
2006-08-16 23:43:24 · answer #7 · answered by lovinonly#1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a better class of friends....really.
2006-08-16 23:33:45 · answer #8 · answered by lucyanddesi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋