me and my boyfriend have been dating for 10 months (ages:13) and he just broke up with me but then after we said our goodbyes he said i love you? i was so confused i told him plz dont say that bc u mess with my feelings and he kept saying it. He broke up with me bc we dont see each other alot since we got to different schools. Does he still want to date me since he said all that or what????
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I NEED HELP!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-16 16:21:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
ur young and these things will happen all thru life. he probably just got scared. give it time and he may come back, but if he doesnt then dont worry and hang in there some one better will come along. take ur time and have fun while ur young.
2006-08-16 17:28:43 · answer #1 · answered by emilybailey1980 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will more than likely have at least 10 more boyfriends that will say and do that exact thing to you. You need to control how you feel and stick with that. Also when a guy knows that you are really liking him and he's still broken up with you, more than likely he is doing it to have a certain amount of control over you. So it's up to you as to whether or not you want to give him that control. I know you are only 13, but if you keep this advice in you mind, you just might be the one with the control in your future relationships.
Here is my advice: DO NOT call him, write him, text him or email him. AVOID him. If you are going to be some place that you know he is going to be, ignore him and flirt with other boys.
One of two things will happen: either he will get jealous and want you back or he isn't going to care and you are better off without him.
Think of it this way, you are just 13 and you have another 10 to 20 YEARS of dating before the one true Mr. Right will come into your life. Good luck
2006-08-16 23:35:49 · answer #2 · answered by Just me.... 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably is a smart young man who is doing a very difficult thing, breaking up with you. He knows you are much too young to be so serious and you have too many years to go before you are mature enough to have a relationship that is so serious.
I am sure his heart is breaking also, but it is the right thing to do. Just stay in touch once in a while and remain friends. Who knows in 5 or 6 years you might find yourselves together again.
Your parents should never have allowed you to get serious at your young age. Maybe his mother intervened and made his see the light.
lc
2006-08-16 23:34:29 · answer #3 · answered by lcmcpa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is just trying to show you that he still cares for you. If things dont work out though there are plenty of guys out there who would probably love to be with you. Just give it time.
And dont listen to the people that say you are too young and etc. I was 13 and my boyfriend was 18....that was 5 years ago and we are still together now.
Good luck.
2006-08-16 23:30:03 · answer #4 · answered by LilBrEeZii 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're thirteen! If you broke up with him and he says I love you, he's playing head games or he himself doesn't know what he wants.
You both are too young and love, girl it isn't going to happen at this age. You think it is, but in 10 years you will think back and laugh about it. Trust me on this. I went through it, I thought I wanted to die and get swallowed up by the earth, but it passed and years later I think about it quite fondly and smile. Then my daughter went through it, and even though I told her, it'll pass, she didn't believe me, and it did pass. She met someone else and they're happily married.
Give it time, have a big cry and you have the right to feel sorry for yourself, but then pick yourself up and let go and go on.
And remember: Don't cry because it's over----smile because it happened.
Good Luck.
2006-08-16 23:32:59 · answer #5 · answered by Mightymo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are both young and he was trying to tell you that he loves you but knows that he will be meeting new girls and you new boys when school starts. Just stay friends for now.
2006-08-16 23:34:20 · answer #6 · answered by mary c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all live your life you are only 13......he is not the last......but maybe he told you he loved you so you won't like anyone else and he can see you and be bothered whenever he wants to......but take it from me....you have other things that can occupy your time you have your whole life ahead of you ....let it go.....learn life first...worry about some guy last.........sorry
2006-08-16 23:34:58 · answer #7 · answered by mimi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when a guy does that most of the time he is just wanting you to know that even though it is over, he still loves you.
2006-08-16 23:27:26 · answer #8 · answered by hi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said you were 13????
2006-08-17 00:52:54 · answer #9 · answered by Tralala 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds stupid . Find someone that will treat you better.
2006-08-16 23:26:44 · answer #10 · answered by sweenygirll 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋