I can't report him b/c it's not technically "harassment" yet, but I'm pretty sure he's sending the signals. He's a married man and I'm too young for him. How do I tell him to back off w/out getting treated unfairly?
2006-08-16 15:46:57 · 12 answers · asked by Lenore 3 in Social Science ➔ Other - Social Science
Very very easy my dear, Tell him you would love to meet his wife.
:o)
2006-08-16 16:15:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur wrong, if he in any way make u feel uncomfortable at the job site and he hit u period! then u need to stand up for urself before it go to far. he know hes wrong and u do too. take steps in getting proof u have a law suit u could very well own that job site. record him if u can dont let him get away with this he might do some one else worst help ur self and futher women good luck, tell freaky boss ur going to tell his wife after u get a small tape recorder and get him on tape. do u hear me? Wake up and get to it
2006-08-16 22:54:38 · answer #2 · answered by 1plum 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant
hell lash out at you the minute you do
just report him
do you understand how broad and vague sexual harassment can be? by definition, its the feeling it produces in you, the victim, that is what matters, and ultimately, what constitutes harassment. not what he actually DOES.
but how it makes you feel, you see?
make the preemptive strike of reporting him
as the boss, he shouldnt be coming on to any employees
and as a married man, he shouldnt be coming on to ANYONE
and as an older man, he shouldnt be coming on to you, a younger girl
dont second guess yourself on this
if you felt it, its real
report him
2006-08-16 22:55:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont do anything yet cause if he is just sending signals, he will flatly deny and say you are the one flirting with him.. the boyfriend idea is good but my suggestion is just give him enough rope to hang himself... he probably thinks he is some studmuffin or something.... find out where he lives and show up at his doorstep, with his wife at home... i gurantee he will stop after that..
2006-08-16 22:56:20 · answer #4 · answered by jaz o 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get a ring and tell him you are engaged. He should back off if he is a man with good morals
2006-08-16 22:52:12 · answer #5 · answered by Mdk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he goes any farther than flirting, like if he starts touching you or making plans to do stuff with you... report him
2006-08-16 22:52:41 · answer #6 · answered by Tis grace. : ] 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ignore him if possible and avoid him. I had a similar situation with a coworker and that's what I did.
2006-08-16 22:57:02 · answer #7 · answered by it's me! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him bluntly STOP, if he does not, and continues, or stops, but treats you like crap, etc, file a complaint.
2006-08-16 22:52:26 · answer #8 · answered by David G 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Bring big bad boyfriend (even if just your friend) to pick you up from work when you know he will be there) that should do it lol:-)
2006-08-16 22:52:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
just ignore him and maybe he'll get the message. if not tell him to back off.
2006-08-16 22:53:06 · answer #10 · answered by xjoizey 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋