how do i tell my bff that im a lesbian
2006-08-16 15:40:32 · 13 answers · asked by cheer c 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
bbf= a girl that is a friend
2006-08-16 15:48:40 · update #1
very gently
2006-08-16 15:44:12 · answer #1 · answered by ☺Everybody still loves Chris!♥▼© 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could try the long, drawn out subtle approach by telling him you'd like to do a threesome with him and another woman. Afterwards you can tell him you really liked it and think that it's what you've been missing all along. It's not really the honorable approach, but it's an approach! Honestly, though, you must tell him. It's unfair to him and unfair for you to continue living a lie.
Good luck!
2006-08-16 15:48:53 · answer #2 · answered by Speedo Inspector 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you mean Boy friend or best friend? Either way, do it gently and respectfully. If it's your boy friend, sit him down and explain honestly and openly that you have realized that you prefer women. If it's your best friend, just say, I hope this won't adversely affect our friendship, but I have to let you know that I am a lesbian. Just have a heart felt and frank discussion with either one. Honesty and openness is always best. Good luck!
2006-08-16 15:51:47 · answer #3 · answered by NoBoysAllowed! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's best to tell him that you only want to remain friends right now. After you have broken up you may or may not want to tell him. Depends on what kind of a friend he turns out to be.
2006-08-16 15:48:58 · answer #4 · answered by mary c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask to have a 3some, if he agrees, he don't care. if he's hesitant, he's definately afraid of losing you. why didn't you be open in the beginning? how long have you known? how long have you been together? just tell him, it's better to be honest, even though it hurts, but you'll both be happy in the end!
2006-08-16 15:46:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your bf will love that. Give him a show with another chick. Tell him that you liked it too much and prefer girls instead.
2006-08-16 16:24:49 · answer #6 · answered by closetcoon_fan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell. It should not be and Issue and if you think that your friend won't approve then you don't really want her as a friend.
2006-08-20 09:16:17 · answer #7 · answered by kim j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um,most lesbians don't have bf's,that would make you bi,but what do I know,since I am bi,lol
2006-08-16 15:47:41 · answer #8 · answered by dragonfly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just break up and tell him its not him but you and dont tell him until ur ready. i've used that line and we're still friends even after telling her the truth.
2006-08-16 15:46:41 · answer #9 · answered by mat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You gotta just tell him..gently
2006-08-16 15:44:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him catch u with another girl hell figure it out
2006-08-16 15:46:05 · answer #11 · answered by max p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋