my bf wants to have sex with me.well for me i don't want to!but he dose!i don't want kids until i graudate from college!is it worth saying yes a having sex with my hott nice bf?
2006-08-16 15:36:42 · 40 answers · asked by ElEgAnTFiShIe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
That's odd... A few weeks ago you were trying to conceive a child with him. You've got a Hell of an imagination.... you should put these talents towards writing fictitious books, not asking bogus questions
2006-08-19 02:15:15 · answer #1 · answered by Rick R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you shouldnt do something that you dont want to do....would that be fair to you and how you feel? I dont think so.....noone has the right to make you feel like you should do something you dont want to. That goes for boyfriends too.
He might be nice and hot looking but, if he doesnt respect how you feel and that you dont want to have sex then he really doesnt love you at all. Because to love you is to understand how you feel and to know that you are worth waiting for....and not making you do want you dont want to do.....that is real true love.
Tell him how you feel about this and let him know you dont want to have sex and that if he loves you and respects he will understand and wait for you. If he isnt willing to do that then I say get rid of him and move on.
God loves YOU and you are worth waiting for and deserve man that will respect that and honor you by waiting for you.......I hope your boyfriend does understand how you feel, but like i said if not you may have to walk away from him at some point. Just so you know there is a man somewhere out there that knows how to respect you and will love you and wait for you if your now boyfriend doesnt.
Good luck to you and God bless
2006-08-16 16:02:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, it is not worth it. If you want to have kids after you graduate from college, then don't have sex now. And if you don't want to do it, then don't. Just say no to him, and if he pushes you further get away from him. Whether he is hott or not, I would wait to have sex after you are married anyway. Then you don't have to worry about the hassles of being a mother yet and trying to afford things for your baby/kid.
2006-08-16 15:46:04 · answer #3 · answered by Harp 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he wants to have sex with you and you dont want to and you do it anyways thats called rape. If he truely loves you he will understand and will wait until your ready. Its not worth it if you just do it willingly and you feel that its not right on the inside but show that you want to on the outside. So just dont do it tell him your not ready and if he dumps you just because he cant get in your pants you know you can do better than that. Find a guy that will respect your decision.
2006-08-16 15:45:47 · answer #4 · answered by age 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. Sex is only good when you're older and you know that you are ready. Passion, love...those things are important, but your brain needs to catch up with your hormones and your body. I know you will regret it...eventually. Don't let him pressure you. Girls who say "no" end up being far more intriguing to guys/men later on than those who said yes just because they felt they had to. It shows confidence and power. And that is attractive. TRUST ME. I waited, and I never regretted it. I am 41 now. Hold your head high and laugh and say "Nope", and if he does dump you...he'll be after you in a few years again...if he hasn't gotten someone pregnant by then!!! HA HA HA!!! Take care!
2006-08-16 15:44:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you just answered your own question "you dont want to" but i wouldnt want kids after college either thats when you get your career started and can have money to travel and do things fun and interesting if you have kids that soon its to work daycare and home, if you do decide to have sex before then get on the pill make him use a condom always no matter how much you trust him good luck with that do whats best for you
2006-08-16 15:44:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is NEVER worth it to compromise your feelings. I say Wait. I have been married for 7 years and I wish I had waited.(even though I love my husband very very much and would never trade him ever) I know have 3 kids and nothing but a GED :o( If he is really nice then he will be patient. Love IS patient. Stand your ground you may regret it if you don't!
2006-08-16 15:51:51 · answer #7 · answered by kwingfan13 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not worth just for for a few minutes of fun. You can always get a new BF but not new life. Use your head not @#$
2006-08-16 15:43:47 · answer #8 · answered by nbhimani04 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ever heard of condoms? Make your bf use them and enjoy sex. Also you might want to take pills with that to be sure.
2006-08-16 15:42:59 · answer #9 · answered by talqapp 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stick to your guns Kid. Sex is not to be taken lightly. Respect is a far greater attribute than gratifying your boyfriend. He obviously has none for you or he would respect your judgement and concerns for your future.
2006-08-16 15:45:50 · answer #10 · answered by dreamchsr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋