im a virgin and my boyfriend and me were messing around i gave him a handjob and then he fingered me we both had clear stuff on our fingers i got my period regular and i took 2 at home pt tests both negative could i still be pregnant? my stomach often feels like im hungry but i dont eat much nothing seems good to me i dont eat as much as i did if i am its only been about a month and a week?
2006-08-16 15:20:55 · 21 answers · asked by Lindz 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
nope hun u cant get pregnant like that
2006-08-16 15:31:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stress makes some people hungry, it makes some people want to make sick. It depends. Semen with sperm should be milky or cream coloured. "Clear stuff" is pre-***. It usually has a very low amount of sperm in it. Unless you had any on your hands and then went and jammed them deep into yourself, you're MOST LIKELY NOT PREGNANT. Even then, the vaginal environment is very hostile for sperm. Such a small amount would not be likely to survive. Stop worrying dear. Mutual masturbation is a good thing, but to keep things less messy, next time put a condom on him. That will also save you some anxiety.
As far as the tests go, two negatives? Well, the likely-hood of them both being defective is rather low. You can probably go to your campus health clinic and have a nurse check you out if you're still not convinced, or go to Planned Parenthood.
http://www.plannedparenthood.org/pp2/portal/
Now stop worrying and go eat something.
2006-08-16 22:41:31 · answer #2 · answered by practical thinking 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax my dear, you are not pregnant but be very careful as it could happen again. And it will happen again with heavy petting. The more you heavy pet the more you will go further. So my advice to you if you don't want to feel this bad again is to either stop your heavy petting sessions, or have him wear condom while you are giving him a hand job. It is safer for both of you and less messy at the end.
That way his fingers will not a chance to have sperm on them when he fingers you. By the way... if he fingers you and your hymen is broken ... doesn't that mean you are not a virgin?
Well anyway use protection and you will feel better about your loving session with him and after wards.
2006-08-16 22:36:54 · answer #3 · answered by NIck N 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not pregnant. Sex is penis in vagina, not a hand job. Sperm dies when it touches air anyway. Besides if they were negative then don't sweat it. The gain of appetite and loss of cravings is just nerves. You feel scared and guilty.
But don't worry. You are ok and there is nothing to worry about. Don't fool around unless your ready because really was a hand job worth all this worry? No hun. You are not pregnant so don't worry about it.
2006-08-16 22:29:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your pregnancy tests are negative, then NO you are not pregnant but be more careful next time. and i cannot beleive how many people out there still beleieve that sperm dies as soon as its exposed to air.. this explains why people are still getting pregnant when they dont want too i suppose. that is NOT true. It dies when it fully dries. it can live for a few hours until that occurs.
2006-08-16 22:32:09 · answer #5 · answered by Mina222 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can still be pegnat ignore what the others said if u had sperm on your hand and i u both touched hands before he fingered u some of his sperm may have gotten inside u. wait till ur next period and take a pregnancy test if its late.
2006-08-20 10:02:00 · answer #6 · answered by METAL CHICK_est.1977 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound like it but be careful in the future. If he got semen on his finger and then put it in you you could get pregnant. Don't get his semen anywhere near your vagina including his precum. Don't even let him *** on you or let him put it in and then pull out because it only takes a drop.
2006-08-16 22:33:31 · answer #7 · answered by toomuchtime 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u sound nervous and guilty..that is god speaking to you when you feel like your not hungry..hes saying,that u should have saved urself for marrieag...maybe think obout what u did, and if it was a righ t choice or not..i dont think ur pregnant at all
2006-08-16 22:29:02 · answer #8 · answered by i will be your friend! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take another test ans stop fooling around like this you are too young and dumb for sex. focus on school take a lot of sex ed classes and talk to your mom
2006-08-16 22:26:16 · answer #9 · answered by kleighs mommy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're probably not pregnant. Just be more careful next time.
2006-08-16 22:25:58 · answer #10 · answered by TashaD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋