She told him in the middle of class and it spread all around the class
2006-08-16 15:05:59 · 17 answers · asked by Caroline D. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
ok people 1 this was her i heard her 2 she also said to me ha ha i am so happy i embaresed you i think my work her is done
2006-08-16 15:17:59 · update #1
I would be upset. that she did it in front of the whole class but not that she told him. i would thank her for that its finally out just go with it.
2006-08-16 15:10:45 · answer #1 · answered by christina.gayle 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
honey, grow up, you're young, if your embarrassed, it'll pass in a week or so, soon you'll be laughing about it. Don't let a guy ruin any of your friendships that you have....they tend to last longer then guys in the long run. She just did the hard part for you, if the guy knows that you like him, ask him out to a movie or something, who knows what'll happen. Roll with it and don't let it bring you down too much. I would let your friend know that it hurt/embarrassed you that she spread how you felt to everyone, and if she's your friend, she'll feel bad and wont do it again.
2006-08-16 15:13:33 · answer #2 · answered by Hannah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, she's completely demolished trustworthiness as a quality, has she not?
If you're not phased by this too much, then I think you could go ahead and stay friends with her, but you will have to watch what you tell her from now on if you decide this.
If it's upset you greatly, then it's okay to break the friendship off. It wasn't right for her to do such things to you. You know this.
Good luck deciding what to do. I'd talk to her about it before deciding exactly what to do.
2006-08-16 15:12:07 · answer #3 · answered by Slippers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it really depends, cuz if you liked the guy enough you probably wouldn't care about what other people think. But that's a different thing if he already had a girlfriend. Although i agree with some of the other answers as to the point where she was just trying to help you, and let him know that your available.
2006-08-16 15:31:15 · answer #4 · answered by soccer loser0903 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
come on y stop a frienship over somthing as petty as that. she probally was trying to get u the hook up. if she did not yell it or was loud where eveyone to hear then u r wrong to end it, even still shes ur friend and they r hard to come by. how do u know that he and others did not think this before she told him? how do u know that he did not spread this around. come on talk to ur friend and find out. if not ur not a good friend to end it over a guy
2006-08-16 15:13:04 · answer #5 · answered by 1plum 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you should you all are young so she figured if she told him she could get her friend the boy she wanted even though she was in the wrong she had your happiness in mind just let her know from now on if you want her to do it you'll ask her to dont be to mad at her she was only trying to help talk to her im sure if she knew it would hurt you she wouldn't have done it good luck
2006-08-16 15:16:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why wouldn't you. This can always be a good thing. It will let you know if he likes you or just wants to be friends and now you don't have to worry about it.
2006-08-16 15:10:37 · answer #7 · answered by drunken monkey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does not sound like the kind of friend I would hang out with, she needs to mature.
2006-08-16 15:10:23 · answer #8 · answered by davidsmom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's the problem? You like him, and your friend should keep it a big secret?
Pffft.
Of course, if you're 9 years old, I guess telling someone you like them is sorta grown up...
2006-08-16 15:11:36 · answer #9 · answered by Stuart 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it up with her out on the playground, tell her to stop or you'll rearrange her face.
2006-08-16 15:11:12 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋