I HAVE A LAZY HUSBAND.NO SEX FOR OVER 7 YEARS.i am sick of it.He seems to think jobs fall from the sky.He wont take the trash out.Or do anything.I have a guy friend we are nothing but friends.What do i need to do with my lazy a$$ husband?And advise?
2006-08-16 14:56:02 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well you start off with a new hair style and get your nails done.Buy you some sexy clothes with a push up bra low cut top.
When he comes home and sits in his easy chair bend over in front of him and ask him what you could do for him. If this don't grab his attention and realize what he needs to do.
Leave his lazy sick *** at home and go to your friends house for the night and have a little fun.
That's the way to handle this now get going don't wait good luck!
2006-08-16 15:34:00 · answer #1 · answered by canuticklemepink 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you married my ex husband honey and I'm sorry....so terribly sorry. I hope you noticed the "ex" in that, because that's what you need to do. Instead of worrying about the trash, put him out on the curb where he belongs. Chances are someone else is going to pick up this man and try to fix him, which would be a bonus for you. After seven years, there's not much fixing needed...he's sort of broken beyond repair....time to get a new one. Which brings me to the new guy. I know that I"m going to catch a lot of flack for this, but I truly empathize with your situation. If there is a possibility with your friend and he has a job, shows potential and there's an attraction....go for it. Life's short, be happy....after seven years of this I think you deserve it.
2006-08-16 22:07:41 · answer #2 · answered by Hollynfaith 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave his lazy ***!! I hate that sh^$! A friend of mine and I were having the same discussion about her man. Why in the hell does anyone think that a job is going to come and knock on their door? I don't know but there are no jobs on TV and no jobs in that 40 oz. of beer that they drink either. I'd leave him b/c SH** cost! NOTHING in life is FREE and obviously you have been paying the bills by yourself so... what do you really need him for? NOT A DAMN THING!
2006-08-16 22:07:41 · answer #3 · answered by Ms. Hot Chocolate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow , my husband is also lazy in the sac, I know how you feel. However, he is a good provider. My friend's husband does not work or do anything around the house, but she keeps him cuz he's good in the sac. Life seems unfair and incomplete at times. Does your husband even have a pulse? I don't know what to say other than don't feed him and maybe he'll fend for himself.
2006-08-16 22:16:39 · answer #4 · answered by fustrated 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you think you maybe falling in love with someone else. I did that and my husband dropped 40 pounds and our relationship is better than it has ever been.
2006-08-16 22:06:18 · answer #5 · answered by Tahnya M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What Do you need him for?? I don't think I would have waited 7 years. Kick him to the curb, you can do better.
2006-08-16 22:07:21 · answer #6 · answered by doglady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if this OK with you then he don't have to do anything now does he... sorry for the sarcasm. you have some choices, separation, divorce, kick his lazy out of your house.
2006-08-16 22:08:36 · answer #7 · answered by Jen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Soundsb like you don't have one. Try seperation. if that doesn't work, nor councelling, divorce.
Sounds like the cliche' I can do bad by myself...
You have a man, yet alone???/
That's bad. sad also. Good luck.
2006-08-16 22:03:55 · answer #8 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
7 yrs? What took you so long? I don't know if there's anything much you can do but you can tell him that you refuse to be his maid any longer.
2006-08-16 22:13:02 · answer #9 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you obviously have an intimate or future relationship with this guy friend, so by posting that have fun with the friend and get divorced for sakes
2006-08-16 22:07:24 · answer #10 · answered by jenny9570_liam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋