It seems like nothing ever goes in my favor, every day is a struggle just to survive. Why??????
2006-08-16 14:51:52 · 15 answers · asked by roskez13 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You know I believe that things happen for a reason. So all your heart and head aches are probably going to bring you something that you need most. Or you could be doing wrong things, bad things and need to change the way you live. Do things good and play fair. Maybe things will work out for you if you do
2006-08-16 14:57:11 · answer #1 · answered by Miss Miller 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ya know.... As a single mother of 3 children, whos gone through college, and does the best I can. I wonder the same darn thing. Why with all the work I put into this world have I not had the chance to feel fullfilled and happy. Truth is, the otherday I was laying in my bed crying and my little girl came in... Shes 23m, she grabbed my hand and hugged me. She smiled at me and pushed her little face into mine with her big little eyes wide open and looking right into mine. I realized I am happy, I just am looking at the wrong things, and the wrong places. Look around you, whats there, what means something? Maybe working hard at work is tough. But if you didnt have to do that, what would you be doing? Where would you be going? If you had the money, wouldn't it get old fast? What you have now makes you keep going,and your friends are your real friends. Good Luck
2006-08-16 15:00:44 · answer #2 · answered by erinjl123456 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont listen to the guy that said you are a loser, your not, i wonder that every day, try getting a hobby to keep your mind off things, like yoga, or gymnastics, or reading, without those things, i would be in a mental hospital, like im dead serious, and i know how you feel when you say nothing goes in your favor, just try to keep a smile on your face = D like this!!!
2006-08-16 14:58:42 · answer #3 · answered by Ashley T. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Murphy's Law - whatever can go wrong, will.
Stop stressing, take a deep breathe and just go w/ the groove - it will eventually work itself out.
Sometimes when we have a bad experience we start second guessing ourselves, make poor decisions and end up sabotaging our own efforts.
Now, I'm not getting all religious on you, but I find that when I keep going around and around, if I just give it up to God, I can get straightened out. A good bender doesn't hurt either.
2006-08-16 14:59:43 · answer #4 · answered by workingclasshero 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my, rember that the bible say that we shall suffer for ADAM and EVE'S sin. life is a test and only the strong shall survive. dont ask y me? say thank u god that i have breath to breath, thank u god that i dont live in a country that kills thank god that u dont live on the streets, thank god that u have fingers to be able to type and eyes to see. compare ur life to the starving children in Africa. now look at ur life is it realy that bad when u stop to think about it, so many other ppl would love to trade places with u cause they have nothing to loose but clothes food and shelter to gain. be thankful........... one thing i know is in ur favor u r alive and well at this very moment. not trying to be a butt head, but everyone goese through trials but at the end when u put faith in god and he pulls u through and u look back and realize that u made it through, it realy was not all that bad, compared to those who live in lesboun and africa and all those other places where children die cause they have no food to eat and look u must have some favor u have a computer. other ppl dont,
2006-08-16 15:04:19 · answer #5 · answered by 1plum 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life isn't meant to be that easy. We always think the other guy has it better than us. Everbody has a tough time of it in some way. That's how we learn to deal with adversity and become better people for it.
2006-08-16 14:58:48 · answer #6 · answered by mopjky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can relate to this feeling.
You have to make a choice every day to MAKE it a good day.
Many people find peace and comfort in faith and prayer. Consider reading the Bible for guidance.
2006-08-16 14:58:45 · answer #7 · answered by danerlu2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've decide that god hates me...
I try to take things one second at a time....
Also, my daughter said do something different than you've ever done before...
I did
don't know the final results yet,
2006-08-16 14:58:08 · answer #8 · answered by DM 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you're doing the wrong thing in the wrong place at the wrong time.
2006-08-16 14:58:03 · answer #9 · answered by Shot At Sight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is what you make of it. Got an example? We all have our stuggles, but it's how your going to deal with them.
2006-08-16 14:57:40 · answer #10 · answered by catboxhoney 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋