I've been using a vibrator (when my husband isn't home) and pretending it's my brother in law. He picks up on my advances and usually rubs my *** when my husband isn't looking? I want him but I don't want to hurt my husband. What should I do?
2006-08-16 14:51:23 · 19 answers · asked by Judith D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Take a large glass of ice water and have your husband pore it in your face to wake you up..Its only a dream and at the end is going to be very scary.
2006-08-16 15:40:33 · answer #1 · answered by canuticklemepink 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where do your loyalties lie? Why did you get married? Is your brother-in-law married? What happened to your vows? What is so inviting that it would cause you to destroy your life and your husbands? If you did proceed, what do you expect from this? Dont you think you owe you husband more than this?
2006-08-20 14:12:29 · answer #2 · answered by bootaboutit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to be secure enough in your marriage to stay away from your brother-in-law and stay fithful to your husband. You don't mention if there are other problems with your marriage,but perhaps you need couples counseling.
As far as the fantasies..be sure they stay fantasies. I can tell you from experience that not ALL fantasies should be fufilled.
2006-08-16 15:04:32 · answer #3 · answered by mopjky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's up with your marriage? Something isn't, apparently. I don't recommend having sex with your brother-in-law. Sounds like you need to do some examining. If you go "further" with your fantasy right now, people could wind up hurt terribly.
2006-08-16 15:01:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Expand your horizons. You must live in a very small town or isolated part of the world for you to only have such a limiting scope of fantasy material to include your brother. As for him, that's pretty dispicable. Go ahead and boink him. destroy many lives for that few minutes gatification. I'LL BET THE BRO-IN-LAW A LOUSY **** WHEN YOU FINALLY DO IT.
JER-RY, JER-RY, JER-RY JER-RY
2006-08-16 15:00:17 · answer #5 · answered by ricosuarve 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you kidding you are really messed up.. Did we need to know all the funny details... Just go get em' Tiger... Who cares if you wanna ruin your marriage.. if you don't really care about your husband.. go do your thing..If you do then just shut the he** up and be like the ordinary individual, and keep it as a fanasy.. I really hope this was not a serious question.. Just cheat or don't.. Who cares..
2006-08-16 14:57:48 · answer #6 · answered by simple 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This will get very messy very fast! Not only will engaging your brother in law in sexual activity jepordize your marraige, it is liable to damage the brothers' relationship with eachother. I think that you should investigate what it is about him that you find attractive. Sometimes it is just that he is not available that makes somebody "hot."
Be careful and be wise!
2006-08-16 14:57:19 · answer #7 · answered by Lost M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop fantasizing and teasing him. You are asking for nothing but trouble. Stop now before it goes further. How would you feel if your sister rubbed your husbands ****?
2006-08-16 14:56:50 · answer #8 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you get married you make a commitment to them. before you were married you should have thought about that. it is wrong to cheat on your husband and it is also wrong to let your brother n law smack you on the butt. i think you are just a slut.
2006-08-16 15:05:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you looking for approval for you to betray your husband and have an affair with his brother? Who could approve of this?
2006-08-16 14:58:32 · answer #10 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋