ok heres the question/ my best friend is cheating on her boyfriend, with a girl this is very confusing,?

Question

she claims that she loves her boyfriend , but she is just experiementing before her boyfriend and she get married, ok her boyfriend is my cousin~ so should I tell him whats going on? hes not stupid he knows something is wrong>+ he lives like 3 blocks away from me............I think its really wrong/ but I dont want to interfere...... what should I do?????thanks

Answer 1

Blood is thicker than water, I say.You should not directly tell your cousin but you should leave anonymous clues for him to really figure it out on his own. He'll get it eventually, especially if he has an idea, and you'll be none the wiser. Experimenting before marriage is just being a whore. Don't let him marry this girl.

Answer 2

Well, there are good and bad points about this situation:
* You should seriously tell your cousin. If not, he may get seriously hurt when he finds out, and your whole life may be turned upside down when you have to choose sides - so who will it be, your cousin or your best friend?
* However, if you do tell, your best friend may get totally upset and say that you betrayed her and all that nonsense.
So, you have to first decide: Who is more important - your cousin or your best friend?
If the answer is your cousin, tell him.
If it's your best friend, stay out of this and let them handle it.
Of course, your cousin might say that you should have told him and stuff like that, but you can always reply : "It's none of my business, so why should I bother?"

Answer 3

She's still your friend? You aren't very picky about who you hang out with, are you?

All you know is what she tells you, right? So, it isn't up to you to pass that along to your cousin.

But, if I were you, I would stay out of it by not being her friend any more. And tell your cousin that you don't like the way she talks and acts around other people. Let him take it from there and figure it out for himself.

That's the BEST way to stay out of it.

Answer 4

your not IN the relationship, so it's not your place to say anything.
although you SHOULD tell you Best Friend that you don't appreciate that she put you in the middle of something like this, and that from now on...she needs to discuss her "relationship" issues with her boyfriend..or the "other woman" and not get you involved. why? because...WHEN (not IF) your cousin finds out that his girl friend/possible wife in the near future is having an AFFAIR (fooling around IS fooling around no matter the sex of the other person), he WILL be upset if he finds out you knew and didn't tell him.
your best friend has put you in a very bad position. its best you back out of the situation and wait till the bomb drops, then duck and get out of the way!

Answer 5

I would explain that you are really hurting him but he dosnt know it. She needs to stop or else tell him. SO... if he finds out anyway... dont take sides and do the best you can spending as much time as you can with both of them and never talk about each other in front of them. Take care! hope all goes well!

Answer 6

Yes, he has a right to know that the girl he's thinking about marrying is a lying tramp. If he decides to go thru with it, then it's their thing, but infromation is power, and he needs the info.

Answer 7

I think he's gonna be mad at you if you don't say anything , before he takes this huge step of marrying someone you know is cheating on him . Then its his decision to make and your in the clear.

Answer 8

Since he is your cousin you should probably tell him and let the chips fall where they may. Your girlfiend is playing at being a bi and he should know.

Answer 9

Family first!

Answer 10

You should tell your "best friend" NOT your cousin. Makes you wonder about your choice of friends, doesn't it.