Undies are small enclosed and they look really dumb to me. Everytime I get an erection it really hurts. Like No matter what size it is. I really wanna get boxers but my mom is saying. "No, I won't buy you them, your thing will feel like it's hanging out" Most of my friends wear them and they say they are more comfortable, and they're more "hip" at the moment as well anyway. Someone please help I've told her about the erection thing and what my friends say but she says no. I might try talking to my dad so if you have anyother suggestions please post.
2006-08-16 14:43:58 · 25 answers · asked by n 2 in Health ➔ Men's Health
Well i think you should follow your mothers advice. Boxers are for some reason just a fashion thing of today. In your younger years the penis and testicles,(not thingy) need good support so that the muscles that control the penis is not hurt or torn by hanging all the time. As you grow older the muscles have better control and later on it life when you really need that good control of your penis, you will have it.
But if you really want to have Boxers. I have the most simple plan of all for you. Look around the house for something to do that is not on your daily chores list. Ask your mother if you were clean the garden or something would she pay you some "x" amount of money? If so then go do it. Get paid... go to the store and buy your own Boxer shorts. If you are old enough to get an erection, you are old enough to work for your own Boxers.
2006-08-16 14:55:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Underwear is a very personal thing, something an individual should wear based on their own tastes and comfort - not whether or not everyone else is wearing them! If your mom won't see the light then you should talk to your dad. If you get an allowance you might consider springing for a pair yourself, then you will be armed with the comfort factor if you find you like them.
Good luck!
2006-08-16 16:04:43 · answer #2 · answered by Speedo Inspector 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not one to advise defying parents, but it seems you should have a right to the kind of underwear you like. Talk to your dad and see if he can help - or get a job and buy your own underwear. You should be doing your own shopping anyway if you are old enough to discuss the erection thing with your mom--you really did? I'm impressed.
2006-08-16 14:49:51 · answer #3 · answered by chris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why dont you make a mid ground with her and ask for boxer breifs. Both of my boys, my husband, and many other men I know say they are an excellent mid ground. Tell her it is the perfect balance between support and comfort. You wont have any erection problems and your mother wont complain about your junk hanging out all over the place.
2006-08-16 14:49:34 · answer #4 · answered by Lissie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if that's the case, maybe if u can strike a deal with your mom about it saying that if you earn more pocket money by helping her do the chores at home, you can use it to buy your own boxers. this is one way. well, undergarments for your groin is something personal in a way. Anyway, most of the time undergarments is best to get ownself because you will be able to know what you want. example, design,color and pattern. more of the personal and privacy side.
2006-08-16 16:24:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mom has no way of knowing how it feels to you. She is probably more concerned that someone might see your erection if you wear boxers. I'd point out how they can cover just as well as briefs. You might need your dad to help but maybe mom's basing her thinking on what he likes. Can't hurt to talk to him about it tho.
2006-08-16 14:50:58 · answer #6 · answered by Kuji 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your mom that If she wanted what's best for you, then she would let u feel comfortable. If you really want them go buy them urself but dont do it and them rub them in you moms face because my being a girl, that is just rude. If any of that doesnt work then talk to your dad and tell him to talk to your mom and tell her she isnt a guy and she doesnt kno how it feels. I hope It helps!
2006-08-16 15:20:21 · answer #7 · answered by Lauren♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was basically going to say what Russrimm said. LOL
I don't know how old you are , but maybe think about getting a job and then you can buy your own. Or if you get money as gifts for birthdays or whatever.
2006-08-16 14:51:48 · answer #8 · answered by Peace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go on a tightie whitie strike walk around in the buff until she buys you boxers.- or better yet GET A JOB and then you can buy what ever you like
2006-08-16 14:48:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should tell her that wearing tight underwear is really unhealthy, it can cause sterility. (this is actually true). So if she cares about your health and her future grandchildren she should get you boxers. Tell her to ask a doctor, and i`m 100% sure that he`ll tell her the same.
2006-08-16 20:56:20 · answer #10 · answered by kaszika 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋