how do you turn a friendship into a relationship.will being too nice turn a woman away from u.showing that u love and care for her?
2006-08-16 14:37:55 · 16 answers · asked by joseph888@verizon.net 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
being too nice and showing that you love and care for her are two different things. being too nice is bad because women want a man if they wanted someone to act like a chick and be all nice all the time then they would just go gay and date other chicks
2006-08-16 14:43:45 · answer #1 · answered by Michael 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women have a tendency to pocket alot of nice guys as "friends" if a move is not made on your part. Alot of times when a woman deems you 'friend' material they find it hard to imagine being in a relationship with you. Does this mean you should give up? No, but remember, if you've been 'friended' you must realize that honesty is the best policy. Don't dance around the subject, be upfront and let her know exactly how you feel. Tell her you are interested in having a more intimate relationship with her. Let her know that you truly and deeply care for her. If she relays your feelings then you are set. Remember that the worst she can say is no, and if you don't take the risk there is a chance you will be missing out on something great. The only place you can go from here is forward sweety. Good Luck.
2006-08-16 21:47:11 · answer #2 · answered by Lissie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well actions do speak louder then words, but perhaps in this case you probably need to come out and say exactly whats on your mind, this way you know exactly where you stand, and if its all good then being nice is great, as long as its not superficial, that being nice is part of you and not something you will do until you get what you want...Understand??? Women sense if things are fake and it would be a shame if you lost your friend this way.
2006-08-16 21:46:36 · answer #3 · answered by Spellbinder 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In most cases, showing women too much attention and being nice too much is a turn off. Women want a man, and men are assertive, know what they want. Being nice to women a little bit is ok, but doing it too much just shows her that she is in control. I dont know about you, but when a women is in control, it means she doesnt have a man, she has a wussy, and women dont like wussy. However, you can be funny instead, bust on something she does or wears in a way shes not expecting but wont affend her too much. And finally, stop paying too much attention to her. When things are going good, stop and walk away leaving her wanting more.
2006-08-16 21:46:32 · answer #4 · answered by Slick Mac 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Good question. And I mean this is a good one.
An "unconfident nice" will turn her away in general. Unless your going out with a bad girl. Sometimes they like to be showered.
Most men don't like "unconfident nice" women either.
Show confidence. You don't have to be mean like some girls say on here. I've gotton plenty of women and I'm a good guy.
2006-08-16 21:57:07 · answer #5 · answered by thunderbomb90 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a woman, we enjoy chivalry. But it might or it might not lead into romance. If we like a guy, simple gestures of sweetness might do the magic, but if we don't, no matter how nice or funny that guy is....he will just be a nice and funny guy for us, nothing more.
2006-08-16 21:44:51 · answer #6 · answered by jen_good girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're too nice they might think you're being fake. But if that's who you really are, keep on being nice because eventually they will see that you're just a truly nice person, and that will make them like you even more! That's how it happened with my parents, at least.
2006-08-16 21:42:44 · answer #7 · answered by Oneofthesedays 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No she'll just keep you around for security blanket reasons and screw the macho bastard when you go to bed at 9:30, like a good boy.
Sweet dreams!
2006-08-16 21:46:19 · answer #8 · answered by ricosuarve 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love and take care of her,but let her know you seek for more than a friendship
2006-08-16 21:44:17 · answer #9 · answered by abysses 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it won't turn a woman off unless you're being overbearing.
2006-08-16 21:43:25 · answer #10 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋