Why are they so complicated??? After going out with my gf, things change and feelings change. I dont, but she does. She says she loves me, but we argue soo much. Shes always mad at something and takes it out on me. When she gets mad and I say something about it, she gets mad. When Im mad, she gives me hell for it. Why are relationships so comlicated? Do they change over time???HELP! I NEED ADVICE!!!
2006-08-16 14:35:39 · 7 answers · asked by bad2bone2212 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
sorry but some things never change it sounds like she has permanent pms and thats sorta crazy how she gets mad all the time and i could understand if it was over something serious but it is over stupid things. i would tell her that she needs to change her attitude or we gotta end it b/c i know that has to be stressful!!! good luck!!! :)
2006-08-16 14:42:50 · answer #1 · answered by hottie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is not complicated if both of you think about it in easy way. Don't think much to be the perfect lovers. I believed if everything you just put in the normal ( treat it as a simple ) it won't give a burdent. True love will come over you when comes to the time. If you keep chasing it and wanted for it it will give a pressure and unsatisfied. Be happy with who you are.. If you think she is not suit you.. never meet to your desire.. just let her go.. Don't be mad..
2006-08-16 15:03:19 · answer #2 · answered by norbadrishah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do not know.i am having the same problem.she said things have changed between us.when i ask her how she does not want to talk about it.we can not talk 2 minutes on the phone without accusing me of starting an arguement. get yourself a dog, they have a cold nose and a warm heart.haven"t found a warm hearted woman yet that didN't want money.good luck
2006-08-16 14:51:11 · answer #3 · answered by joseph888@verizon.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you say you argue alot. then are you listening to what she is saying. compromise is about learning where you can change for yourself first and then for your partner. things change because you both are getting to know more about each other. you are finding things about each other that you would like to change but compromise is about sharing and understanding each others differences and learning to accept and live with those changes you both make for each other. take time to hear what is being said and the tone it is being said in. learn not to relive an argument that you both have agreed is settled.
2006-08-16 14:45:39 · answer #4 · answered by ehatis98 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know what u are going thru I'm married and still i can ask that question,things do just change and feeling do change for bad or worse,it's even harder if you have a female friend who treats you with love and respect that you should be getting off gf/wife.
2006-08-16 14:43:58 · answer #5 · answered by STEPHEN W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yo,you are letting your girl run you! Put the Pimp hand down on that $hit. Tell her to controll her funky @$$ temper,if she won't than tell her to bounce. Girls are like the bus,if you miss one,in 5 minutes another will be along!!
2006-08-16 14:45:33 · answer #6 · answered by Manus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she has a problem. Try asking her. If not, maybe you're just spending too much time together and need some space.
2006-08-16 14:47:44 · answer #7 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋