2006-08-16 14:23:53 · 54 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It says freakin' NOTHING about you. It says a lot about him ... younger, older, prettier, uglier ... he had a messed up head. Who knows? Maybe he is done and is ready to be everything you need. Maybe he's never really been committed to you. Hard to tell.
It was NOT about you.
2006-08-16 14:28:36 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You don't have to be ugly, or stupid to find yourself in a situation where your man cheated on you. Think Christy Brinkley, Think Halle Berry think of you and possibly some of your females friends. "They" usually DO IT, with who ever makes it easy for them . Usually that's younger & stupid. DO NOT let his action effect your self esteem and self worth. He acted like a dog! God knows what kind of germs he may have brought home..Treat him like the dog he is...otherwise he's gonna think it's ok to poop on you again! His actions say he has poor, or no impulse control and may, be a pervert..how young was she??? She's somebodies daughter I wonder if he thought about that! Probably not he's a DOG and was thinking with that head between his legs not his brain! Take care of yourself. There are good men out there who won't risk loosing you over an easy piece of meat.
2006-08-16 14:36:18 · answer #2 · answered by Brains & Beauty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't necessarily say anything about you at all. It says a lot about him and your relationship.
If the two of you are having relationship problems, he should talk to you and work on the relationship instead of responding by cheating on you.
Of course, if there are problems in your relationship, you might need to change some of the things you do to improve the relationship. If you treat him badly, it doesn't excuse the cheating, but it is a problem itself.
You might even consider leaving someone who cheats on you, taking in consideration the overall quality and duration of your relationship, how you feel about each other in general, if you have kids,etc.
2006-08-16 14:32:38 · answer #3 · answered by mollyneville 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It says that he needs pep in the bedroom again and that you failed to give it to him. Go buy some sexy lingery, a nice perfume, make a romantic environment and then go about having a steamy affair with your husband(if it is not too late). I am sorry if I sound a little blunt, but you did ask, and truth is that men often cheat because at home sex is like a ritual, totally boring and without pep.....Good Luck
2006-08-16 14:31:12 · answer #4 · answered by MARIANNE G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the younger they get the looks aren't really the reason, we start to focus more on the skin tone.amount of body hair, or lack of.a younger girl has alot less inperfections and is alot tighter in all the right places.
so the question is would i rather have a aged, wrinkly,hairy,lose pretty women,with moles and spots all over her freckled body
or a tight young sweet hairless stubble less ugly girl .with the smoothest skin you have ever seen.
sorry for the honesty
2006-08-16 14:33:45 · answer #5 · answered by pooteo1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think it had anything to do with you or your appearance...He cheated on you to satisfy his insecurities and lack of confidence by prooving to him self that he can have an afair with a younger person....It doesnt make it any better for what ever the reason might be...I wouldnt let him get away with it though, i will make him take responsibility for his own actions....I would leave then he would realise what he has done....
2006-08-16 14:31:17 · answer #6 · answered by Spellbinder 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he cheated on you no matter whether with younger or older woman it only indicates that he is not trust worthy person. If you do not have kids i think that u should terminate your relation. Kids would be the only reason to try to save it, but usually it doesn't work.
2006-08-16 14:31:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
men are very mysterious sometimes.I think cheating is part of their mannish nature .I don't think he cheated on you because she was younger but because he found somthing in her character which you lack or couldn't give .If you want him back and you really love him then you must fight and never let go , change yourself alittle to meet his needs .If you don't care then let it go and don't start any relation untill you're sure you can make it right this time .I am telling you this because i am a married mum and when it comes to my family's life i'll move mountains if i can. Best of luck .
2006-08-16 15:19:54 · answer #8 · answered by ayoush1_bbc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband did the same thing to me years ago. He slept with 3 women that were dog ugly. For him it was all about the sex with them. With me it was because he could see having a life with me. Unfortunately for men, who aren't all that smart at times, it's a weakness. Maybe he was trying to "sow his oats" so to speak before making the decision that you are what he really wants.
I can't say for sure, but after being with my husband for 10 years, he has not cheated on me since our marriage.
2006-08-16 15:08:03 · answer #9 · answered by ~SSIRREN~ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not about age or looks particularly when people cheat (and my hubby recently cheated on me with a teenager) it's more that someone else meets a need that isn't being met at home. if this was just a one night stand then take it as a warning, find out what's missing, and put it right.
2006-08-16 20:34:51 · answer #10 · answered by good tree 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No guy cheats in the beginning of the relationship. Looks & age have nothing to do with it....it's the newness, plain & simple.
Women do have a defense. If you can get to know your man's inner fantasies & help him fulfill them, you will become his fantasy.
You've got the home court advantage. Use it!
2006-08-16 14:32:09 · answer #11 · answered by hellsbells 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋