Me and my husband have been with eash other for over 27 years meeting at an early age I never had the interest to go out side the relationship I am wondering if i am missing out?
2006-08-16 13:53:10 · 16 answers · asked by chris D 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yes, yes you are missing out on a lot of things. one of those would be STDs.
2006-08-16 14:01:53 · answer #1 · answered by joe_smo_red 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess that is something that you will always wonder about, but you shouldn't. I've always wondered what it would be like to have just one lover and think that nothing could compare to that. I am 48, was married at age 32, divorced at age 44 and have had several lovers. Lots before getting married and one since my divorce. There is definitely a difference. Some are too rough, too fast or just plain weird. The man I am with now suits my needs perfectly; knows just what to do, when to do it and how to do it right. If I had met him before I had any other lovers, I would probably be wondering the same thing you are, but if your husband makes you happy, I consider you one of the lucky ones!
2006-08-16 14:08:38 · answer #2 · answered by mab5096 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not the number of partners that matters, its the depth of feeling between two people for each other that determines the level of intimacy and overall satisfaction with lovemaking. When you have achieved a certain level of intimacy with your partner, the sex can be very powerful and emotional and much more satisfying than what you might get in a shallow, superficial relationship. So no, I wouldn't say you are necessarily missing out. The question is do you feel you are missing out?.
2006-08-16 14:14:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing u missed out on is a bunch of breakups. I'm not sure if it's most (they don't do statistics on this) but many people don't marry their first loves and experience heartache before they find their soulmate. If your husband is your high school sweetheart, you're in one the lucky couples that beat the statistics.
2006-08-16 16:54:17 · answer #4 · answered by unaforce65 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is wonderful.
I am 20 and about to be married. He was my first and now the only guy i want to be with. Yes there are people that will say that you are missing out but i think otherwise. That's the world trying to get you to conform to it!
2006-08-16 14:06:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of the things you're missing out on are the headaches that go with each relationship when your partner ends up hurting you emotionally or worse. If you're happy and contented with your current relationship with your husband, it shouldn't matter what you're missing out on...right?
2006-08-16 14:12:58 · answer #6 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm the other one in question. I am the wife (female) & my husb wrote the question for me...
Since I've known him since I was 15, married since age 20, I've known & loved him longer than any human being on Earth.
I haven't known a time when I didn't love him, and the sex is GREEEEEEEEEEATTTTTT! ! !
I guess if his #&)! wasn't all that -- maybe i would have wondered, but we've both been "blessed" by that..... lol
2006-08-16 14:13:52 · answer #7 · answered by Marie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Surely if you truly love your husband such thoughts should not even be crossing your mind...Obviously something is missing in your relationship for you to think as such....If you love your husband you need to find out what it is and rectify it quickly if you can before you end up destroying your marriage.
2006-08-16 14:10:13 · answer #8 · answered by Spellbinder 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
naaah. your not missing much if your happy with you partner in every way then it doesnt matter what your "missing" even tho your not missing anything different anyway lol.
ive only had two sexual partners in all of my 23 years of life, the first one i was engaged to, the current one ill be marrying soon! i was perfectly happy, sex wise with both my partners. im totally happy in every way with my current guy.
it just means your a nympho lol :D
take care and have fun!
2006-08-16 14:05:28 · answer #9 · answered by lusciousevil 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hold on, you and your HUSBAND? And you are a guy?
ok, thats cool.
Yes, you are and you have already missed out!
2006-08-16 14:04:05 · answer #10 · answered by whatnoname? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋