It's a hard thing to notice. he's looking normal and you begin to wonder if most of the guys are gay or not. Sure it's not a wise way to do to find out the answer by flirting with them. So what's the way to find out if he's gay?
2006-08-16 13:39:06 · 23 answers · asked by Jefferson L 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Ask him! I don't assume........people are people and some of the most effeminate men are straight! I'd ask.
Cause you know what they say about assuming.......when you assume.......you make an *** out of U and me! LOL
2006-08-16 13:44:11 · answer #1 · answered by Ambervisions 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Most gays look no different than anyone else..but I wonder why you are so concerned. You can lightly cruise a guy, if he is straight, he will think you are admiring his body from an asthetic standpoint...most people do not jump to the conclusion you are gay. If he returns the mild cruise, it can go from there. This is not a mystery in life...just learn the subtle signals that men throw out. Straight men do not actually look at other men other than glance. Easy as that. I strongly suggest you do NOT ask anyone if they are gay...that is not a good way to keep your teeth or dignity. Some guys take it as an insult, although I am not sure why...they just do. If you have no real reason to suspect they may be interested, then assume they are not. good luck I am puzzled that seemingly straight men think they know the answer to this question..perhaps they are not as straight as they would like you to think??? This is not a question a straight man could possibly answer.
2006-08-16 13:45:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, learn that gay IS normal. So is straight, or bisexual, or transgendered. They are all normal ways of being. That being said, you find out by becoming friends with him. Get to know him and talk with him a lot. If it ends up that you're gay and he's not, if you are friends, it won't matter. You won't find a boyfriend in him, but at least you'll have another friend!
2006-08-16 14:07:23 · answer #3 · answered by michael941260 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now your purely a 12 months and a 1/2 into puberty, your hormones are going to do all sorts of atypical thinks and make you imagine different. Now with the erections or adult men isn't gay, even if the sexual objectives are. i imagine your objectives are kinda your way of experimenting. you may want to be gay, yet for now i imagine your curious and your wonderful with that. So if you're fascinated in adult men, it truly is feels like you, then your gay. So yeah you may want to be gay, yet bisexual remains a per chance.
2016-11-04 23:32:26 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do u mean normal I am gay and I am normal. now if u mean straight acting then that's different. First if he looks at u in that certain way then he is gay. Learn to read who is gay and who is not.
2006-08-17 00:34:53 · answer #5 · answered by popo dean 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you say "normal" I'm assuming you mean masculine...
Chances are you wont have a clue a guy is gay is he is the masculine type without asking him.
Appearance and mannerisms aren't really 100% anyways... always best to ask then assume...
2006-08-16 14:54:22 · answer #6 · answered by Levi Cristopher . 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gees, I just answered this a minute ago. Watch his eyes when a cute boy walks by.
You wouldn't even notice most gay men- they look normal because they are normal.
2006-08-20 00:04:03 · answer #7 · answered by reme_1 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Gays have secret powers that we keep from str8's. This allows us to have fun while the spend their time debating whether or not Tom Cruise is gay or not.
Talk to him. Learn about his life. You will get a good idea by getting to know him.
2006-08-16 17:45:41 · answer #8 · answered by kiz_ma_az 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just what exactly does a gay person look like?
2006-08-16 13:45:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hehe... I'm just curious... are gay people supposed to have like a pen*s growing out of their head or something?? Why wouldn't they look normal?? LOL. Anywho, why do ask? Are you gay and want to hook up with him? If you are not gay, then it is not your business. If you are gay, then...... I dunno. That's a tough one. Because if you do hit on him, and he isn't gay, you risk being beat up....
2006-08-16 13:47:58 · answer #10 · answered by Ashley P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess you'll never know because a gay person is normal.
2006-08-18 15:40:28 · answer #11 · answered by Necole 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋