I just cant get my husband to give me enough,he wears out and wont take viagra,any advice
2006-08-16 13:30:13 · 21 answers · asked by TAMMY M 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
sleep w/ someone else. or at least threaten it. make subtle little comments like "man i wonder if he would last longer" or "i bet he would do this to me." something like that should be a big enough blow to his pride to get up and doing something to make it right.
2006-08-16 13:38:41 · answer #1 · answered by joe_smo_red 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shop for some toys together. The strap on is not a bad idea....we have used that too and works well! Dont get a boy toy, especially if the rest of your marriage is good. If it's not then you have deeper problems than not enough sex. Toys work great!
2006-08-16 20:49:48 · answer #2 · answered by just me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Viagra does not increase a mans sex drive. It just helps the deflated genetalia. He might be tired so you would need to compromise to come to a happy medium.
2006-08-16 20:39:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They make an array of vibrators out there now that have up to 9 different power settings. They make them to massage the clitoris, the g spot and just about anything else you want. They even make them out of glass. In fact I think they are making them so good, pretty soon you won't even need your husband lol...check it out on the web!!!!
2006-08-16 20:51:19 · answer #4 · answered by Cute But Evil 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What about fingering? Or oral?
There's always masturbation...get ya some sex toys...Take him with you to a sex shop or get online if you'd be too embarassed to go to one in person...Find some stuff you think you may like...he might even see some he likes for himself and would like to try on you
2006-08-16 20:45:14 · answer #5 · answered by Danielle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try bringing some excitement into your sex life. Maybe try using a sex toy, let him use it on you and then have sex. That way you are already almost there, you know what I mean, this might even excite him.
Good Luck.
2006-08-16 21:25:18 · answer #6 · answered by Monie D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you gotten to his inner erotic fantasies?
Every guy has them, but it can be tough getting them out:
1. Guys are embarrassed by them
2. Often guys don't fully understand them
3. Guys are hurt that you don't seem to want to know.
4. Guys are afraid to expose their wive to their inner demons.
5. Guys get hung up on deifying their wives. (angelic)
Tease it out of him. It's work for you, but fun in the long run.
2006-08-16 21:03:34 · answer #7 · answered by hellsbells 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy a vibrator to take care of the urges, and cut him off until he gets "tho old monster back in the stall " again.
2006-08-16 22:04:48 · answer #8 · answered by AllisterD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him for a threesome.. or foursome.. alternately, slip some of the Viagra into his tea!
2006-08-16 20:54:45 · answer #9 · answered by whatnoname? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Tammy, let me know what works for you. I have a similar problem with my wife, but she says she gets sore.
2006-08-16 20:51:38 · answer #10 · answered by Archangel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋