Hello, I am troubled that my wife may be cheating on me with my flatmate. How do I confront her with my suspicions? It really gets me pissed off. I wanna make sure, file for divorce and get a new love life.
2006-08-16 13:28:00 · 7 answers · asked by Faith 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Suspicion will fester and ruin your relationship if this is the way you are feeling now.
Either confront her about it or just tell her its over because you feel there is no trust between you.
Don't let it escalate as this will only make you feel worse !
Good luck !
2006-08-16 13:36:18 · answer #1 · answered by any 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im afraid trust plays a large part in a relationship and if you suspect they are cheating be careful not to accuse her before you have adequate proof. You could plan a night out and tell your wife you will not be home til the following day but then appear suddenly during the night as if your plans fell thru. The trick her though is to give your wife the confidence you wont be home so you may have to try this a few times until you suddenly spring the surprise home early appearance that way you may find them in bed at any given time. Good luck.
2006-08-16 20:38:26 · answer #2 · answered by Gar 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me as if you are looking for an excuse. Be honest with yourself. Do you really think she is cheating or would it make it easier for you if she was? The final sentence in the question seems to say that you want out anyway.
2006-08-17 04:34:05 · answer #3 · answered by monkeyface 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you confront her, make sure you have plenty of proof. Like monitoring the computer for any emails that give her away. Install a keylogger to monitor her, follow her.
2006-08-16 20:35:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why wait to prove something. by the sounds of it you just wanna F--k off anyway so do it! if you loved her you wouldn't wanna believe you suspicion's you would be trying to find out whats bothering her to save what you have
2006-08-16 20:36:07 · answer #5 · answered by omnigomni 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hired a detective 2 stok her,, or u stok her dont 4 get 2 bring some video recorder,,
2006-08-17 00:11:59 · answer #6 · answered by zheo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to be devious and catch her out,you can only confront her if you have evidence otherwise she will make you look silly and it will be harder to suss her out?or you can just walk out and get yourself a better life good luck x
2006-08-16 20:36:11 · answer #7 · answered by APRILDEB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋