How do bisexuals have a one on one relationship without all the jealousy.?

Question

How can any have commitment,trust,respect if you go both ways?

Answer 1

If they belive in monogamy then, the same as any one else has commitment, trust and respect. Just cause you go both ways doesn't mean that you have to have both at the same time.

Answer 2

What is important to you may not be important to others. Jealousy arises from insecurity, not the other way around. Bi's know which end is up, know limits, know where to draw a line, detach from the emotional and embrace the physical. IF they don't, they will not be bi for very long, and that is the danger of being bi. Let's face it...if you are going to lose someone, you are going to lose them, no matter what is going on. Fidelity may sound like a great playing field, but it brings its own set of problems, no greater, just different. IN the end, and as we age, we place importance on different things in life. When I was young, I was possessive as hell...and I am sure it stemmed from insecurity as a person. Today, I could care less if my mate has a roll in the hay with someone, they will be home at dinner, a smile on their face, and be a great companion/lover that evening. It isn't a matter of jealousy at this point, it is a matter of whatever makes you happy without threatening the relationship...a delicate line to tread, but seemingly, it is done by many. I cannot tell you with any surity that the mate always knows about the other's messing with the same sex, but in many ways, the occasional messing around may be what saves the marriage, not tears it assunder. The trick is to play only with a safe partner who has no intentions of becoming attached in any manner. Good luck

Answer 3

If the person I'm with doesn't trust me,there IS no relationship. I am bi,but monogomous,I've never cheated on anyone,and don't expect to start now. If I were with a partner,and felt the desire to be with someone else,I'd break up with them,and do it,or I'd just tell the person I was with,which right now,happens to be male,I've got the desire to be with a female. Since I'm the type of person who can't have sex without feelings for the person,I don't have "flings" so,I have one relationship at a time,just like straight people SHOULD,lol

Answer 4

Only way a bisexuals is going to have a one on one relationship without all the jealousy ... is to find a nice hermorphadyte.

Answer 5

Lol Good question. Okay since I' am, myself a bisexual...This would be easy. We, bisexuals, are people also. Just as if in a normal relationship where both of the people are straight and one of them becomes jealous from seeing the other staring or drooling over the opposite sex, you also have to deal with your partner, at times, doing this with both genders. Humans can't help it. We get jealous. People can't help but to feel jealous of how our partner is looking at another person. And it just happens. You have to have faith in that person. That's pretty much it.

Answer 6

If you only went one way...gay or straight, there is still a whole wide world of people out there with whom you could cheat. Why should it be any different just because you are bi. If you are in a committed relationship, that is just what it is, committed, and it is not excusable to cheat with man or woman!

Answer 7

Weather you like only the opposite sex or the same sex or both, it doesnt have anything to do with a relationship.

The rules of a relationship apply with bi sexual ppl too.. You dont cheat.. Its something you dont do to your partner, weather your bi, straight or gay! If you are in a relationship its generally because you really like/love the person, so if you really like or love them why would you want to be with someone else? Bi sexual ppl dont get this animal attraction all of a sudden and want to jump the opposite or same sexes bones!If were in a relationship with a woman then we are in that relationship.. and vice versa!

Answer 8

Some really good answers here but some bad also, Let me just say you have to be bi to understand things so deep but it's not an easy life..

Answer 9

uhhh... commitment is commitment. has nothing to do with sexual orientation. if you commit yourself to someone, it doesn't matter how many people you may potentially be attracted to.

commitment, trust and respect are independent sexual attraction. its called self control and truly committed people exercise it

Answer 10

Its called evolution. Its not easy, and bisexuals are not the only people who can rise above it. In fact its rare when anyone can deal considering their fragile egos are at stake.