2006-08-16 12:46:42 · 12 answers · asked by BabyGirl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
we have a son together but he tells me he loves me and wants to be with me and now he always has no calls on his phone and i feel he is still communicating with her and it is his ex-girlfriend.
2006-08-16 12:48:12 · update #1
maybe he needs to talk to someone about you. he needs advice. i don't agree with him doing this with his ex, however don't think the worse sometimes our accusations make things that are strained even worse. see if he's willing to go to couples counseling.
2006-08-16 12:55:59 · answer #1 · answered by cookie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this woman is his ex and he is definitely communicating with her but keeping it from you ... that is a really bad sign. It's one thing if it's just a simple "hi how are you," but if it's more than something simple, then something must be done--especially if he's lying about it. One thing you could do is log in to your wireless phone account to view calls ... if you have access. Honestly, I think you should ask for the password if you don't have access. If he won't tell you, then dump him. Sorry, but that's my opinion, only because he should be honest with you.
2006-08-16 19:52:48 · answer #2 · answered by danika1066 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him first, if you get nowhere than talk to the other woman and find out whats going on if he won't tell you. If could be just a "buddy" relationship, someone to talk to, or he could be giving her some lines and not know he's working both sides of the fence! Good luck, but just remember about the child in the middle of all this!
2006-08-16 20:02:49 · answer #3 · answered by sunni1028 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For starters if he knows this bothers you he should cut all connections with his ex-girlfriend. There is a possibility he is still seeing or visiting her for a snack. Find out why he is still contacting her and what is it she gives him that keeps him calling her back? Tell him if he wants to bounce, bounce now not later. You are not seconds.
2006-08-16 19:56:25 · answer #4 · answered by narcisscus24 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You gotta talk to him and soon.....dont wait for him to come up and confessed or to admit his mistakes...he wont do it!.....and let him know that if he continues doing this, he is not only hurting you but your son as well.....he should think about his family first and realize that he is not single anymore....
2006-08-16 19:53:46 · answer #5 · answered by Martita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres some reason why you dont tust him why is he emailing and calling her if he is erasing numbers from his phone he's hiding something call cheaters get them to follow him theres nothing better than proof it beats having to hear him say you are crazy and insecure they play that card too much.
2006-08-16 19:52:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a boyfriend that does that too. You have two options: put up with it or leave. It's pretty simple.
2006-08-16 19:52:37 · answer #7 · answered by tattooed_babe24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confront him, and see what he has to say about this. If u have access to his password, go through his e-mails as well, and don't forget to check his outbox messages.
2006-08-16 19:52:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he`s a player! and you are a sucker,give him a choice that witch or you,pack his stuff and put it out side so he knows that you are not fool`n around any more.
2006-08-16 19:53:59 · answer #9 · answered by horseknickers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her if they are dating
2006-08-16 19:51:10 · answer #10 · answered by Bam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋