my boyfriend has hit me in front of his friends hi jump me once in his says he wont do it again but what should ido
2006-08-16 12:35:45 · 19 answers · asked by kianna s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
yes you need to tell them before he injures you badly or even kills you! please tell someone that can help before its to late
your bf may honestly think he wont do it again but he has a problem that he needs to seek help for he cant control his anger
my best friend spent years in a relationship like this and now she regrets she wasted so much of her life and went through all that pain and heartache
2006-08-16 12:45:52 · answer #1 · answered by crystal h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. You need to tell someone you trust right away. Chances are, this guy has a rage problem. Statistics show that if a person is violent more than once, they will do it again and it gets much worse each time.
Having been through this long ago... I think you should break up with him immediately. I'm sure you believe he won't do it again and think he's really sweet deep down, etc. and I know you don't want to think he's a bad guy. But he is. He will hurt you again. A good guy that loves you would NEVER hurt you.
At least tell your parents. That way, when your body is found dead or unconcious, they can tell the police who might have beat you senseless.
2006-08-16 19:48:12 · answer #2 · answered by answergrrl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave the SOB and tell him that if he ever, EVER hits you again his a** will be in jail. hes being inconsiderate and irresponsible towards you. not to mention he obviously is very immature. you don't need someone like that no matter how much you love him or he loves you. he doesn't love you, because if he did he would never. never. lay a hand on you like that to gain rep with his friends! that's just ridiculous.
yes tell you parents, tell his parents also. don't be afraid of him. make sure you take pictures of the marks he leaves on you just in case you have to file a restraining order.
you deserve someone better sweetheart.
take care and good luck.
2006-08-16 19:50:21 · answer #3 · answered by lusciousevil 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that u should tell ur parents because whos 2 kno if he goes 2 far one day and ends up seriously hurting you! I also think that u should consider leaving him alone like not be with him anymore im sure u deserve better! was he trying 2 front b cuz his friends were there if so then u still need no 1 like that
2006-08-16 19:43:56 · answer #4 · answered by gurl_balla14 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes u should tell someone just in case something happens to u.
But u should pick u something and hit his azz so hard that he would not think of hitting u again. My husband hit me in 1991 and i took the pole out my closet that my clothes hung on and i bet his azz and he want try that **** no more
2006-08-16 20:06:38 · answer #5 · answered by sazzybmt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gurl run obviously it is something his dad have done to his mother he just repeating the course,
They love to make u feel guilty like im sorry or flowers or baby im never going to do it again. Dont listen to ur friends u need to talk to an older adult if not mom an older adult. good luck u are better than that so dont let this bring u down to hard.
2006-08-16 21:36:06 · answer #6 · answered by Quisha . 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your parents, leave his behind alone and get a restraining order. If not it will get worse. this may seem cruel, but do you want your parents to see your flourish into a beautiful young woman or be burying you by the hands of some uncaring idiot? Ask them that question.
2006-08-16 19:41:39 · answer #7 · answered by snowflake9540 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really have to get away from this person. Hitting at any time is never alright. Not for any reason. Yes you should tell your parents. they can help you get protection from this guy. He will only get worse with time. TRUST ME I KNOW!!!
2006-08-16 19:42:18 · answer #8 · answered by marilee w 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, tell your parents if not tell a friend.....he must get off on this and feel like hes a man doing it in front of his friends...imagine what he will do someday when your alone....get away he doesnt care about you and he needs help! ive been there before and they dont change...im sorry gets old! good luck!
2006-08-16 19:46:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to leave this guy and as fast if you can. they say they'll never do it again but i guarentee you he will. and if you don't get out at the beginning of a relationship like this than its going to be very hard to get out when its already too late. your life and future is in jepordy. LEAVE ASAP
2006-08-16 19:46:59 · answer #10 · answered by garbage pal kid 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋