what should i do if i like this guy but so does my friend and i dont think she stands a chance but shes my friend and i dont want to go out with her crush. cuz a lot of guys like me and theres not so many that like her ( he doesnt like her though) so what should i do?
2006-08-16 12:26:36 · 19 answers · asked by Bowchikawowow! 2 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Other - Entertainment
You want to keep your friend. Move on down the list of guy you seem to have.
2006-08-16 12:33:47 · answer #1 · answered by Myke BoDean 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm assuming that if she is your friend, then you should talk with her about it. Ask her if it's okay if you persue this guy. Be honest and open with her about your feeling for this guy. However, if you are sure this is not the guy for you, then maybe you should let your friend decide if he is truly right for her. If this is just a fling type of thing, then I feel you both should decide what's more important, your friendship or the fling...Well, goodluck! Just remember, there are lots of options, just don't ruin the friendship over it..Talk to each other! Bye
2006-08-16 19:34:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her about it and see if she is gracious enough to say its okay if you date him? Being a friend goes two ways. If she knows that he is not interested in her, then why not give you the go ahead. Bottom line...if you are truly friends and truly care about each other...she will say go ahead, go out with him if you want...AND, you will say no, because you had a crush and that would be crossing the line. SO, neither one of you date him...yea, that would be the ultimate sacrifice for true friends!
2006-08-16 19:33:18 · answer #3 · answered by Author Al 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I honestly think its pretty sad that you are having to think so hard about the right decision on this. Go after one of the trillion guys pursuing you and let your "friend" have her one damned crush. How would you feel if your roles were reversed?
2006-08-16 19:33:30 · answer #4 · answered by honk2goose 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A good friend is really hard to come by, while guys are a dime a dozen. Decide if she is more important than this guy!
2006-08-16 19:33:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First ask you friend if she would be totally mad at you if you asked him out and she said yes then try to reason with her. If the guy likes you enough if ask you out go for it.
2006-08-16 19:36:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Check with your friend. If shes really a good friend shell be OK with it.
2006-08-16 19:31:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how good a friend she is. If she is than she shoudn 't mind if u go out with him. She should support you.
2006-08-16 19:34:29 · answer #8 · answered by matt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whats the rush let it play out, maybe she'll figure out he doesn't like her OR find someone else.
2006-08-16 19:34:06 · answer #9 · answered by marie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it is a crush then you should wait but if she is just infatuated with him then you should go for it but talk to her first though.
2006-08-16 19:34:26 · answer #10 · answered by Rob M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋