well i dunno why people that when they get a bf or gf and totally forget about their friends, chose me as a friend?
have happened to me more than once...
when theyre single im theyre best friend*, but as soon as they hook up w some1 they totally 4get about theyre old pal(me), i mean, i think u should split ur time 4ur friends n whoever ur hooked up with, cus remember that when they break ur heart only a friend can give u a hand... but why most of the pp that r friends w me are like that???
2006-08-16 12:24:52 · 10 answers · asked by misscuriosity 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It's just the way it works. You are not that person's most important focus. If you are a good friend, you accept it and live with it. Do you want them to continue to keep you at the same level as their bf/gf if they get married? Of course not, because that'll cause problems with the marriage.
2006-08-16 12:29:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
friends are friends no matter what...either u see each other often or not...its the thought that whatever happens u can count on each other...a friend is someone who understands and will tell u anything adn everything, whether she likes to hear it or not...at some point in our life, we'll eventually live separate lives, ahve our own family but it doesnt mean we stop being friends just becuase we have different priorities...be happy with ur friend :)
2006-08-16 13:28:56 · answer #2 · answered by just me:) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe because you let them. When they spend so much time with their bf/gf they know their friends are going to be mad but they know that you'll accept them anyway which is good but don't be a doormat. Youre a person that deserves attention. So then next time the breakupee comes running backt o you, tell them youre busy. Not like youre stuck up but that its not YOUR responsibility to make them feel better or that you're their backup.
2006-08-16 12:29:54 · answer #3 · answered by andthatshypocricy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Usually at the beginning of a new relationship, the couple wants to spend as much time together...usually forgetting about thier other friends. Give them a little time.
2006-08-16 12:30:19 · answer #4 · answered by Michelle O 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-25 21:33:30 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask the same question, when you get a bf, would you ditch your friends too so you can have all the time with your bf?
2006-08-16 12:34:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a girl friend but i don't mind to hang out with you.
2006-08-16 12:45:59 · answer #7 · answered by Ehab 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's a girl thing
most girls give up their friends when thet get a boyfriend
most guys on the other hand don't
2006-08-16 12:30:07 · answer #8 · answered by rsuavez66 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
in a word--- immaturity.
as we age we find that our g/f mean more to us than our spouses a times....
partners come and go...g/f are 4-ever!
2006-08-16 12:30:14 · answer #9 · answered by wutta-croc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
totally immature
2006-08-16 12:31:19 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋