Ok this girl at my school, She is my country mate use to talk so much crap about me for no reason. One day someone told me she called me a **** FACE?? I ignored it, cause first thing I dont know her (she dont know me) second I did not know why would she even say such thing?? third I know I aint ugly at all. lots of girls and even bi-guys have told me that I am HOT. Now that she started talking to me and we are friends (Its been only 3 weeks) today she told me, "I know you are gonna have very cute babies"?? I dont get the whole thing. Can someone give a a clue on what is on her mind?? Why was she rude and judging me before and what is that quote (cute babies thing) means now??
2006-08-16 12:20:57 · 21 answers · asked by Sheeno 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Maybe she never said that about you. Did she say it to your face, or did someone tell you she said it? You know you're not ugly. Now you and she are friends. Let any bad things be in the past, and be friends. Just don't let her manipulate you with talk about "babies"!
2006-08-16 12:28:45 · answer #1 · answered by Bad Kitty! 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This one is pretty easy. She didn't know you, felt threatened by you and struck out in a jealous manner by calling you names. Putting you down, made herself feel better. Then when she actually got to know you, she realized she was wrong and is over compensating by giving you some outrageous compliments. I mean not that you aren't attractive or anything, it's just that to hear someone say "you'll have really cute babies", it's a little out there, but that's just her way of telling you she thinks you are pretty. Girls are caddy honey, I'm sure you know this and if you want to get to the bottom of it all, ask her why she'd call you "**** face" behind your back and then be sweet as pie to your face. Alot of times, confronting a person is all it takes to reach the answers you seek.
2006-08-16 19:31:33 · answer #2 · answered by Hollynfaith 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she'll jealous that your pretty, she might think that you're prettier than she is, and that's probably why she called you that, she didn't care that she didn't know you and didn't want to get to know you first b/c you look better than her, it's hard to explain what I'm trying to say ... but like how some girls call preppy girls names, when they don't know them ... they just do that b/c they're jealous and just judge them b/c the way the look/status! But now that she's friends with you and found out your nice and everything she's probably cool with the whole "look" thing, maybe this makes sense to you!
2006-08-16 19:27:31 · answer #3 · answered by Cutie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's jealous of you and she's trying to disturb you. You're letting her get into your head. You need to stop talking to her and ignore what she says about you. Once you do that, you'll be more self confident. If you continue to listen to what she says about you, your self confidence will be lowered, which is in her interest, because she clearly is immature and has a low ego. You're already a little confused because of some ridiculous things she's said. What about when a girl you're interested in turns you away.. you'll be freaking out thinking hey, I thought I was hot, what's going on. Once your self confidence rises (just don't talk to her and ignore those types of comments) nothing anybody says about you will bother you.
2006-08-16 19:24:38 · answer #4 · answered by ioncayah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Paying attention to gossip can be foolish as it is always exagerated, but than again there are a lot of two faced people out there who pull the same stuff is sounds like she is pulling- keep her at a distance at the very least- and if you have the balls- confront her so you can figure out if it is gossip or she is really being a biatch
2006-08-16 19:27:58 · answer #5 · answered by Hans F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well sahil.....
im sure you have no idea about this but there is a time of the month girls.....have this thing...which makes them...grouchy and i bet you meet her during that time.....
and after that.. she would get back and be normal...
so to be a gentalman...you sould have an ear to listen to and let it...out the other....
and respect her..and love her..
cause she is planning to have children from you...
just one thing...make sure..you are legal to go that far...and are working.....so you could....buy the dipper for the babies....and to give the shots..and not run to your parents..for...money every day
2006-08-19 02:48:39 · answer #6 · answered by kaka90250 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
alright dude listen up women talk alot of **** dont listen to it she might for all u know may have been just screwing around with u but dont take it seriously but if u are that worried about it then sit her down and nicely ask her y she said that, dont leave that **** bottled up inside it will hurt later
2006-08-16 19:28:12 · answer #7 · answered by surftight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Gimly 1977!
2006-08-16 19:41:21 · answer #8 · answered by Shadow 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might have been using sarcasm when she said the line about cute babies.
2006-08-16 19:26:09 · answer #9 · answered by John B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that sometimes when we're inmature and like somebody, we do stupid things. It's easier to be obnoxious than constructive. Maybe she liked you, but didn't know how to address you, and it was easier being cruel.
Good luck!
2006-08-16 19:32:29 · answer #10 · answered by Roberto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋