o.k .how do i know when guy wants sex? I DON'T WANNA HAVE SEX WITHOUT PRoTECTION.is that true that they are breathing really heavely? hOW DOES HE ACT?? IS THAT TRUE THAT GUY ARE OBSESSED OVER SEX? IF SO , WHY??
please answer this question very seriously and no mean comments please because that' my life and i don't want to screw it up. I WANNA HAVE SEX WITH PROTECTION ARE THERE ANY WAYS EXEPT PILL AND CONDOM??
PLEASE TELL ME I DON'T WANNA GET IN TROUBLE AND PLEASE DON'T REPORT ME I JUST NEED HELP FROM REAL PEOPLE.
THANKS U SO MUCH FOR YOUR TIME!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-16 12:20:44 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You sound like you are really young and it is disturbing to know that you are experimenting with sex when you are not mature enough to know what is involved. I don't mean this to be a mean comment in any way. I just want you to reconsider what you are doing. You are a valuable human being so don't give yourself to someone who will use you and discard you.
2006-08-16 12:31:20 · answer #1 · answered by mom 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all how old are you? 16 and younger is WAY too young to be having sex anyway. A condom is the safest way to protect you from sexually transmitted diseases and pregnancy but you must know accidents do happen. The condom can slip off or burst. Sex should be shared between two mature ppl who are in love. Not just something to do.
Dont let them pressure you into having sex either. If they are not willing to wait, then you dont need to be with them. Guys gove off all kinds of signals. Touching, kissing, carressing etc.. some outright say it.
Once you have sex, you cant go back and be a virgin again. I would think long and hard about it.
2006-08-16 12:27:15 · answer #2 · answered by SilverWolf 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
FIRST
if u want to have sex a clean sex just with ur lover u start with ur relationship with word love go with him to know more about him
then after that i mean a long time like 1 year u can know if he love u really if he want sex just sex he was leaved u before but when he love u from his heart not just for sex he still with u forever
look take it as gram er in ur life when u give any silly man every thing he will leave u don't give just when he can love u without sex i want to tell u something sex that important thing but if u leas ten one day in virginalLOVE that better from normal love that the lover can stay with u all the life without sex so ....... that nice right
hope i can help u
remember don't talk this case easy love important ......then sex
BADI TO KNOW MORE ABOUT UR SELF!!!
2006-08-16 12:45:38 · answer #3 · answered by BADI BOUNAPART 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is so hard ... u seem like a little kid ... why do u need sex anyway ??? first of all a guy cant hav sex untill u let him so ... or else it will be a rape ... and his life will be over ... ok ... so u dont hav to know when a guy is up for sex ... he will come to u and try to seduce u and will make moves that u will understand and at that moment if u want to hav sex with that guy ... ask him to bring protection ... he will do it ... unless he uses condom u will nto hav sex ... if he understands that he will bring it ... u dont hav to worry about it ... and yes boyz are obsessed with sex ... caz of their hormones and all those extra powers ... it is just normal that guyz shud be crazy for sex ...
ok tell em why do u want to hav sex ??? is it only out of curiousity ??? if so then i suggest u wait untill u found ur dream guy ... so even if he left u behind u dont hav anything to lose ... and why do u want to hav sex ... at this age ... they will just take advantages out of u ... and before u know how valuable it is u will become a slut to the boyz around u ... and there is no better protection than pills and condoms ... its better if the girl takes pills and uses the condoms while having sex ....
2006-08-16 12:34:22 · answer #4 · answered by Ahbab Da Coolest 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my experience men usually always want to have sex. If they know you are willing they are ready. My advice is just use the condom for protection. It's the best protection you can get against STD's and now they know that ovarian cancer is caused by HPV which is transmitted sexually and you have no way of knowing you have it. Unless you are absolutely sure you are both virgins I would skip the pill and just use a condom and make sure he puts it on before he even comes close to your vaginal area.
2006-08-16 12:28:29 · answer #5 · answered by yummymummy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a female condom. It is shaped like an hourglass, and it is hard to find. Using a condom is your best way to help against STDs... but you can still get some like Herpes. Guys usually ask for sex when they really want it. This noramally happens after making out for hours... or over the phone at a totally random time.
2006-08-16 12:26:04 · answer #6 · answered by Humming Monkey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you sure you are ready for sex sounds like you are scared maybe you should wait but if you dont yes you should use a condom to help with pregnancy and std's are you on the pill if not maybe its time to talk to your mom about being on the pill so you wont get pregnant. i also think you and this guy should at least be in love before you do it have the two of you talked about sex if not then you should you never know he might sleep with you and leave you alone afterwards you have to think about that are you ready to handle that if it happened it happens to alot of girls so just know that he cares and rspects you before you do something like this hope my advice helps a little.
2006-08-16 12:29:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol u will know when they want it, very hard to miss, usually its always, second they always want it, they are obsessed cuz sex is great specially kinky sex if only we could get paid to have sex with the person we like off camera and get paid for it , great! , no use pill and condom and spermicide, dun wanna bun in the oven!
2006-08-16 12:31:33 · answer #8 · answered by lauree_anne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need some more sex education before becoming sexually active. Talk with an adult you trust. I suspect that you're young, and I don't want to discuss these matters with a minor. That is for their parents and teachers.
2006-08-16 12:26:19 · answer #9 · answered by julielove327 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
fisr are u old enough to be having sex?
you sound like your not sure
don't feel pressure to have sex if you don't want to
and if a guy want to have sex with you be strong and tell him no protection no nooky!
there is always oral sex or forplay
remember is your body you are in control
2006-08-16 12:27:41 · answer #10 · answered by worried 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋