I saw him today and he tried to talk 2 me and I acted like I didn't know him cause i didn't want 2 talk to him what should I do
2006-08-16 12:19:24 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
What's wrong with being fat?
Was he rude to you on your date?
Condescending? Impolite? Does he spit when he talks? Did he fart every time he moved? Did he punch you? Babies? Small helpless animals?
Was he considerate, and polite and reasonable? Did he make you smile? Was he shy? Did he open any doors for you, or pay your way?
Those are the right questions. Not what you should do to avoid him because he's fat.
What a great way to torture this poor guy.
2006-08-24 09:25:47 · answer #1 · answered by ceekryt 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you should be ashamed of yourself. Not for going on the date but for acting like you did. How about if this kid was on a pity date with you because you have pimples. You should be more concerned about whether he was a nice guy than what he looks like.
Maybe you should spend a little time watching the Maury Show. He does stuff like this all the time, and one loser deserves another!
2006-08-24 11:58:19 · answer #2 · answered by painterman19723 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How would you feel if the shoe was on the other foot. Why would you even consider a PITY date, that is not a date, it is something soulless people do to make themselves feel better. My question is Now that you have done this bbbbbbbbbbbbbBIG favour how do you look in a mirror with out vomiting
2006-08-24 08:30:36 · answer #3 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is extremely insensitive of you. And then people wonder why others have low self esteem.
Obviously you are beautiful because a normal looking person wouldn't treat someone like that. And you must be stupid right? Isn't that how the stereotype goes?
Just because someone is overweight doesn't mean they are any less human than you are. EVERYBODY has feelings and you are great at being insensitive. Way to go!
Apologize to this person.
2006-08-24 12:07:18 · answer #4 · answered by Heidi R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the first place you shouldn't have gone out with him. Maybe he only wanted to be nice with you but I guess you think you are all that. I hope you find a ugly guy from the inside and outside so you will learn that what count it the kindest of the person not the looks. And beside he could lose weight but you would always be a stupid *****.
2006-08-24 05:31:40 · answer #5 · answered by Monica M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hope he wasn't coming over 2 thank u 4 ur pity by break'n u off with some of the lottery money he just won!
Sounds like U were probably HIS pity date 2 cause ur actions were pitiful!!! Inside ugly is FAR worst than outside ugly!
YEP, UR PITIFUL!!!! ;-)
2006-08-22 06:18:34 · answer #6 · answered by Di 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You know, I was like you in high school, and then I grew up! And one day I met this man, he was the most wonderful man in the world, he was funny, and charming, and made me feel like I was the most important person alive. I did not notice that he was "fat", someone had to tell me. I only saw his soul.......his pure wonderful soul. Now I am married to him, he is my soulmate, and I love him more than anything in the world. You should never look at the world thru such shallow eyes. you may miss out on something truly important.
2006-08-24 12:01:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to be rude. What makes you better then him, to act like you didn't know him. He is probably wayyyyy nicer than you. You know, people are so artificial. How would you feel if someone did that to you? You shouldn't have gone on a PITY date with him. That was your first mistake. GOD, you are f-in' lame!
2006-08-24 09:46:14 · answer #8 · answered by kimmypoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm going to tell you what my Mom always told me. Beauty is only skin deep, but UGLY goes through to the bone.
Right now I think your being ugly. Who cares if he's fat? He may be a very beautiful person on the inside. Take the time to get to know him. I also agree with the person who told you to rent Shallow Hal. Don't just ignore him, that is very hurtful.
2006-08-24 02:50:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It wasn't really a good idea for you to go on the pity date. You now are proborly hurting his feelings...perhaps get to know him and be his friend. Trying to ignore him just because he is fat is just shallow.
2006-08-23 05:43:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋