I don't know what to do I don't see the point to life.......You see I came back from vacation and my boyfriend tells me that we need to talk........we got into a big argument and we ended up breaking up.....I could't take the pain so my parents got all mad...........my boyfriend calls me and he tell me we need to talk so I was like okay.......my parents told me that it was him or them........I don't know what to do everyone deserves a second chance I'm so confused what should I do...........Is a big problem in my house I don't know what to do........I just want to run away..........
2006-08-16 12:13:29 · 8 answers · asked by Princesa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Boyfriends come and go your parents will always be your parents
2006-08-16 12:19:09 · answer #1 · answered by zedsta007 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Running away never solved a problem, you need to face up to things. You broke up for a good reason, and you need to accept that fact.
Love is often like computers they crash, and when they do, you need to get another one.
He is not worth the agony you and your parents are going through just now.
I'm assuming you are young, and I know it will be hard to hear, but you will get over it. And you will find another boyfriend, and one who will be better for you.
Boyfriends will come and go, but your parents are with you for life, and they are the ones, who love you, and are trying to protect you.Realize, they are older, and seen much more of life than you have, and are looking after your best interests.
Trust them, and forget about your ex boyfriend. as soon as you can.
2006-08-16 19:22:52 · answer #2 · answered by johnb693 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing is "Family Always Comes First". They are the ones who will support you, take care of you, make sure you have clothes on your back, food on your table and a roof over your head. You are apparently quite young. You will have LOTS of other guys in your life. Let him go for now. If it was meant to be he will be around later. On the other hand, your parents should never have given you that ultimatum unless it was just to get you to open your eyes and let you see who really matters most.
2006-08-16 19:23:20 · answer #3 · answered by tesbrown 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know your age but....you might think going with your bf instead of family is the best idea, but there are pro's and con's. Do either of you work, how do you know y'all will always be together. On the other hand family is not all what their cracked up to be. They can stab you in the back just as quick. You know that saying Family before friends, I wouldn't be so sure. Go with your gut, its not always right, but 90% of the time it is. But make sure you can differentiate between heartfelt and gut felt. Good luck!
2006-08-16 19:22:52 · answer #4 · answered by queentinkb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all how old are you? can you get out on your own if you have to? and be independent? most parents won't totally give up on their kids but if this guy is hurting physically i could see why they would say that. another way to look at it is do you love him more than your parents? can he take their place? no guy is worth losing your family. maybe it was fate that you broke up there might be someone better where you are not looking.
2006-08-16 19:20:56 · answer #5 · answered by mommy_dearest 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow thats pretty selfish for your parents to tell you that! Try fixing relationships with them first and if it continues to be a negitive envirement for you I would contact social services if your under 18 and if your not move! Realize that your boyfriend's habit's didn't change and if you take him back, there needs to be a change. Keep your ears open and listen to what he has to say.. Goodluck!
2006-08-16 19:23:52 · answer #6 · answered by yicklesnitzel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't run away from your problems. If you are old enough to make a reasonable decision, then pray to god for an answer. He truly does listen! God bless you!
2006-08-16 19:23:52 · answer #7 · answered by sissi362000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time heals things like this. a new boyfriend also heals a lot of pain.
2006-08-16 19:19:52 · answer #8 · answered by zocko 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋