what should i do???

Question

what should i do if i like a guy. should i tell him, keep it a secret, or have my friend tell him. help me out. PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 1

Absolutely DO NOT have your friend tell him! That's one thing that I have never understood and always hated about women. Just come out and say what you mean. If he's the kind of person to laugh at you or otherwise hurt you for it, then you should already know that. If he's a decent person who deserves your attention, then he'll be nice about it even if he doesn't like you. Both of you will gain from an honest experience no matter how it turns out. -yk

Answer 2

I think the best way is to tell him yourself. Find a way of starting a conversation with the guy. This, for most people, is the hard bit. If you are able to have a short, comfortable and happy conversation with him then you could slip into the conversation the fact that you really like him and you could say a little bit about why you like him. And, if you feel comfortable doing so, you could mention what effect his positive attributes have on you. The next stage can be a bit tricky. If the feelings are mutual then everything should continue very nicely. And, if he is graceful at accepting compliments, then you will still have a nice conversation but it might not go anywhere. But what do you do if he gets a bit uncomfortable, if he rejects your advances or if he even gets a bit rude? I think that the answer is for you to take it all with good grace and just remind yourself that some guys are just not ready for someone as desirable as you.

Martin Camden.

Answer 3

Do not have your friend tell him!! do not! this does not only look bad, but it looks like you dont have self confidence. You should do it yourself..Tell him that you have liked him and that you would like to be more than friends. If you have IM or messenger and he does as well, I like this it gives you confidence that you may not have, then phone is also good because it just so happens after that "you have to go eat dinner" I wouldnt recommend getting off right away, it looks silly. Good Luck with the guy! (secrets secrets are no fun, you should tell everyone) okay maybe just tell him, good luck!

Answer 4

if you want him to notice you, you have to make it known that you like him. otherwise, you could go on for years wondering what could have happened. write a note, or have a friend tell him. just let him know in some way. dont tell him yourself though. it would catch him off guard and it would be wierd. a note would probably be the best way.

Answer 5

Looks can be deceiving, before telling him how you feel, you should ask him out first. You may realize that you have nothing in common or there are things about him that you dont like. If there are more dates then you can express your feelings.

Answer 6

I think you should tell him. Because maybe he likes you too, he's just afraid to make the first move. some guyz are like that. But it also depends. if he gives signs that he likes you, tell him. Or, maybe you should just ask him who he likes, and see where it goes from there. I hope i helped!

Answer 7

Start speaking with him, about something plain. Ask him where he bought his T-Shirt, for example.
Ask for his advice, like, where is a great place to eat, what is the movie he recently watched he would recommend for you....

Say, oh, by the way, my name is.... thank you for the recommendation, I appreciate it.

Answer 8

Let him know. Sometimes guys are as nervous as girls are when it comes to telling them that they like them.

Answer 9

go hang out with the guy and see if he likes you,wear something that will catch his eye.if he likes you he will come around