Threesomes?

Question

My boyfriend wants a threesome again! We've had 2 in the past and now he wants another one. I'm all for it but it's mighty strange that he can find these females so quickly and what does he do just say, "hi, wanna have a threesome, have a nice day." I just need to know if I should keep doing it or should i stop him in his tracks, by the way i do enjoy it so that not a problem.

Answer 1

How can you ever be able to trust him or be a legitimate couple if he keeps bringing company to the bed? Girl, put a stop to it before it's too late and you get replaced. I hate to see innocent people get hurt. You are encouraging the situation.

Answer 2

If you personally see absolutely no problem with threesomes every now and again or even threesomes regularly then there is nothing wrong with just enjoying it. But if you have any concerns or worries of any kind no matter how big or small you should discuss these things with your boyfriend and if he cannot reassure you sufficiently for your liking that your concerns and worries are groundless then you should consider taking steps to deal with your concerns and worries by other means such as by negotiating and agreeing clear boundaries. And stop him in his tracks if this is necessary for your happiness and your peace of mind.

Martin Camden.

Answer 3

I would ask him where he finds them. I have been the "extra" woman in a few threesomes but I was always approached by the couple together. I can't imagine agreeing to a threesome without all parties meeting and being attracted to each other.

I would be very concerned about how he is finding them. In my case, I had several friends who knew that I was interested in that sort of thing and they would introduce me to couples who had asked them if they were into threesomes. It may be that your boyfriend has a friend like that. It may be that he finds them from swinger ads. He might be offering them money or drugs or misleading them in some way. I hope that he is being careful in his search and being honest with everyone involved.

Play safe.

Answer 4

what would he say if you are the one that brings a boyfriend to the threesome instead of him? but after all, if you like it, keep enjoying it and don't ask too many questions.

Answer 5

Go for it. I know plenty of women who enjoy being the "third" in a threesome, because there's no risk of commitment. There are more of them around then you'd think.

If you're fine with it and enjoy it, go for it. And while you're at it, ask your boyfriend if he wouldn't mind you inviting another man...

Answer 6

LOL!!
This is a very interesting relationship that you have with your boyfriend. I hope you know that if you have genuine feeling for your guy, eventually, if you continue on with this type of sex play, it's not going to have a happy ending. You'll eventually lose him to another woman, or you might catch a STD. I'd encourage you to put an end to it, but it's your life, and your relationship.

Answer 7

Sounds like he is a talent scout. Maybe he is doing some auditions without your knowledge. Turn the tables on him and suggest that instead of another female, you get another guy. That just might stop his yearning.

Answer 8

Honey, all I have to say is PLEASE make sure you have protected sex with this guy EVERY TIME you have sex whether a twosome, threesome, or whatever-some! There are way too many people involved in this program to take that kind of risk. Fun or not, it's certainly not worth your life!!!

Answer 9

Tell him a 3some is fine. But, this time you want another man instead of a woman. He'll flip. But he may realize that he only needs you. Good luck.

Answer 10

You find the third partner. Make it a good looking guy. Preferably one that is well hung. Tell your guy you want him to participate with the guy just like you. Taking as well as receiving.