I dislike giving head - I will do it but I'm lazy at it. Also I'm SLAMMIN in the sack (sex wise). Question is how many other girls dislike giving head? For the guys - does it matter to you if a woman is not good a giving head but they're good in bed?
2006-08-16 11:58:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
To me, it is Very easy to recognize when a woman is faking Any kind of sex (or that she doesn't like what she's doing). That is a BIG turn off for me! If I can't get the woman into it, WTF is the point?
You are Not lazy! You are one of those women who deep down inside are disgusted by servicing a man orally. You can't Fake it! You can't Hide it and you will have to face the fact that men who love BJ's will get Very bored with you Very quickly. Maybe you can find yourself a guy who gets off by licking your feet or something.
2006-08-20 03:36:13 · answer #1 · answered by thart090 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Communication is key, if you don't like it than this has to be made clear. Sex will never be good if you are forced to do things you don't enjoy. I mean that's the point of sex isn't it, for both to enjoy. Like said above no head is better than bad head because open-mindedness is a big turn on. But rather than disliking it, is there a way that you could become more comfortable with it in a situation were it was something that your partner enjoyed?
2006-08-16 15:31:13 · answer #2 · answered by amish_renegade 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know guys that were willing to give it up for a SLAMMIN' HOT GIRL. I mean a 9 or 10. If you are less than a 9 or 10 on the TSA scale "tight slammin' A**", you will have to get better and like it more or your men will leave you. Period!
2006-08-16 12:29:42 · answer #3 · answered by troyboy 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would rather have NO BJ than a bad BJ.
The whole attitude of hating it and doing it anyway just shows and is a real turn off. Colors the rest of the experience in a neg way...dont' offer if you don't like to do it...the guy and you will end up disapointed.
If a girl is open to other things then, no, I don't mind not getting a BJ...especially a bad BJ.
Still...a woman who does enjoy giving head and (GASP) swallows is worth her weight in gold!
2006-08-16 12:14:15 · answer #4 · answered by Pop S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know many men who are willing to forego oral for the long haul. Do without it for a few months?? Maybe. But if you plan on having any long-term relationships, you'd better work on that skill - unless you want him looking for it elsewhere.
If a man has a choice between you and a woman who is "slamming" in the sack AND at oral also - guess who's gonna be passed over??
2006-08-19 16:59:56 · answer #5 · answered by chimerablu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Variety is the spice of life. Oral sex is way different from intercourse, and most guys prefer a sex life that includes both to getting just one or the other (I think that is true of women, too).
2006-08-16 13:05:05 · answer #6 · answered by Eric 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Crucial.
2006-08-18 11:46:34 · answer #7 · answered by L Jeezy 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Head is not super important to me at all. I do however love giving it prior to...well, you know...
2006-08-19 05:51:57 · answer #8 · answered by ligoneskiing 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOT FOR ME BUT ITS ALWAYS REA LY GOOD IF A WOMAN KNOW HOW TO GIVE HEAD
2006-08-16 12:12:18 · answer #9 · answered by PAYASITO 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter to me.
2006-08-16 12:37:48 · answer #10 · answered by Judas Rabbi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋