ladies, most of us had been dumped by a man along the way...?

Question

did you take any revenge and what was it?
looking back on it now, was it worthwhile ... did it make you feel any better?

Answer 1

When I was 14, my first boyfriend slapped me. Thankfully I'd read an article in Seventeen magazine saying that if a boy starts getting violent, he'll only get worse--just a week before, can you say miracle?! So I dumped him.

I found out that while he was pressuring me to go further than I'd have liked, he'd done various things with four other girls in my middle school and his high school.

So we spread an STD rumor about him. In both schools. Killed his dating career until his parents moved.

I wasn't slapped by my third boyfriend, when I was seventeen, but I did also find out he cheated on me.

He had a new car that he was proud of.

I "borrowed" corrosive acids, gloves, and safety glasses from my chemistry class and dumped the acid on the hood. Car wasn't so hot-looking after that.

I still feel it's worth it. But I learned many things since--one of them being to pick a better class of person to date. My last breakup wasn't nearly so rough on either of us, though we did both say nasty things about each other to mutual friends.

Answer 2

I was dumped by someone, or rather, ignored until I realized I was dumped. I fantasize about getting back at him, but I never really did. If the opportunity to get back at him came up, I would take it as long as it was not against the law. :)
I am ashamed to say it, but I want to hurt him like he hurt me. I was so heartbroken, I can remember how I felt - like it was yesterday, even now. I have it great now with another person so I rarely think about it. Sometimes I still recall the disappointment of the situation.

Answer 3

For myself, only the revenge of a life better lived with a new and better man :)

Answer 4

The best revenge.......Feeling good, looking good, being good, being better than I was when I was with him.....by way of education, experience, self assurance, confidence, thankfulness- for having learned from him what I'll never settle for again. Yes, it makes me feel really good and really appreciative for him as an experience.

Answer 5

I get myself healthy and start looking better than I have in a very long time. This almost always begins to attract attention from other men! My last didn't appreciate it though, I wound up leaving him and am now having many men approach me! Eenie, meanie, minie, moe...

Answer 6

Revenge is sweet if you move on and get your life together and better. But at the same time doing nothing is even sweeter. My babydaddy left me and then slept with my cousin i did nothing and till this day, we are NOT together but he spoils me like hell, and this happened 3years ago. We never had sex since we broke up 3yrs. ago. And never will HOW SWEET IT IS!!!!!!

Answer 7

It was one of those "see other people" things, he got mad when I said "that means I get to see other people too, right?" It just got worse from there. I was the manager of a store in a mall, he was a security guard. He was always giving me dirty looks, giving me tickets in the parking lot, etc. Well, my apartment burned, he told one of my friend's "***** should have died in the fire..." HE broke up with me! He just kept running his mouth....I went to the security office, slipped one of those penis pencil erasers into his coat pocket and waited.........one of the other guards came to me and said "did you put a penis eraser into ___'s pocket? He is pissed, said he's coming to talk to you" I said "I would LOVE to talk about his tiny penis!" That was it, the story about his penis was all over the mall.

Answer 8

Sorry girls, but never been dumped - they wouldn't DARE. My problem is getting rid of THEM. Lol! I must be just tooooo good for 'em! Put them in their place early on in the relationship and you need not fear thereafter.

Answer 9

No, no revenge. that's too much baggage to carry around. i like to travel light.