I'm writing an essay, and I just want to see what people have to say.
2006-08-16 11:28:08 · 9 answers · asked by It's my life 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I divorced my husband because he decided one day that backslapping me wasn't enough and decided to beat the daylights out of me. My crime? I wasn't there to watch him watch television as I was helping my cousin move. Years later I asked him why he did that and he said he was tired of me and wanted me out of the house. Gee, all he had to do was ask, he didn't have to beat me.
2006-08-16 11:34:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lots of things, finances are a big one, people disagree about how to spend money or one is very irresponsible with it, not realizing how hard it is to be married and have kids is a big one, they are basically disillusioned by the reality of life. Infidelity, one cheats on the other, thats a big one. Letting things get stale and stagnant. Mostly these people never should have been married in the first place and focused on a wedding rather than the life to come after the wedding. Or they convinced themselves that getting married would fix what was wrong in the relationship before the wedding, it never does. Or they thought they could fix the other person, they can't. Or they thought that once those things failed having kids would fix it, they NEVER do and more often than not they have the opposite effect and ruin relationships that were otherwise good. I would probably still be married to my first husband if we hadn't had a kid, everything was fantastic before that after that it all went to hell.
2006-08-16 11:43:22 · answer #2 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Feeling lonely within the relationship.......lack of time together or lack of communication. Feeling that the other is always too busy to be there for you. If you have a bad day theirs is always worse, just the feeling that you have become an expectation not a real person. This can work both ways.
2006-08-16 12:07:22 · answer #3 · answered by eagledreams 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not sure really. my parents are divorced. they been divorced for 4yrs now. and i tore me up when i was a kid cuz i didnt know what was going on. the bad part is i have problems because of there divorce.
2006-08-16 11:41:23 · answer #4 · answered by ♥la chica♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer in my case was that I made a vow and kept it. My kid's dad considered the 'faithful' part to be a 'grey area'. That was, I guess a matter of values. I value truth. Hope that helps.
2006-08-16 11:36:53 · answer #5 · answered by swarr2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are so many reasons, financial problems, constant arguing, trying to change each other and becoming bitter toward the other, being unfaithful, feeling this is not who they married.
2006-08-16 11:40:35 · answer #6 · answered by arvecar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of problems are about money and about punishing the children. They don't agree on this items and it causes quite a lot of fights.
2006-08-16 11:37:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
money, sex and children
money not having enough and the stress it causes
sex when someone else is having it and the stress it causes
children having too many and the stress it causes
2006-08-16 11:35:28 · answer #8 · answered by rdhedhottie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only thing that would EVER make me leave my husband is if he had sex of any kind with another woman of hit me.
2006-08-16 11:38:04 · answer #9 · answered by baby_b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋