My mom is mad at me for being anti-sociol she called
me mean for saying Ppl wth friends are weak and
useless and loner are superior to those who have friends
2006-08-16 11:21:58 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well unless you are some kind of genius who hopes to discover the cure for a rare disease or into rocket science and totally focused on your cause to the exclusion of having friends....you are not a superior being. (That is really what you said.) You are self conscious and lonely and stick to what you are familiar with ...misery. Your mother doesn't know what to do about it but she is concerned about you. Mother's are like that. Find an interest and go with it...join something, do your best at it and make contact with the human race somehow. You can do it. Best of Luck.
2006-08-23 06:32:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Everone needs friends and there are no exceptions, including you. Maybe you should put down the drugs and think more about life and the good in the world. I don't understand where you got the idea that loners are so great. You better do some reading and see all the loners that have become murders, rapist and so on. They to thought they were great, but now they are behind bars or six feet under. The best advice would be to seek counseling and tell you mother that you love her, by the way have you done that lately. Probably not. After all, I want to be alone and feel sorry for myself. Before I quit, have you skinned any cats lately in you private domain of lonliness. Seek help, see your priest, minister, doctor before it is too late.
2006-08-24 11:22:21 · answer #2 · answered by John L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she's not mad but worried about you. Sometimes being alone all the time isn't necessarily a good thing. If you sit around and read and watch Tv and don't bother anyone then well she should leave you alone. If you sit around carving on yourself with a steak knife or make lists of people you'd like to kill and eat, well then that's different. There's nothing wrong with having friends but if you don't like to be bothered with people that's your business. But have you ever noticed that when people describe some serial killers and rapists they're often described as "loners"? I'm just saying. Jeffery Dahmer didn't have a lot of friends either.
2006-08-23 08:58:31 · answer #3 · answered by lovelee1 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nobody should be a loner. Being a loner does not mean that you superior. Nobody is more superior than the others, we are all the same.
Go and make at least a friend or 2. People that you can share your thoughts with. I don't have any true friends and i can confidently tell you that it is lonely. This is not superiority. This is ultimate sadness.
2006-08-24 03:26:15 · answer #4 · answered by shopaholic 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong is about be anti-social and have no friends,your mom is afraid that you might be in problem in the future and since you have no friends,no one will help you.
But for you,loner is superior and independant.You need no one to survive,
No man is an island,you prove that its true by coming here and ask this question,if you really can be superior and independant,why are you seeking others opinion to prove your point?
2006-08-22 12:46:11 · answer #5 · answered by Janet Y 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there's anything wrong with being a loner, but saying that people with friends are weak is a bit extreme. You choose to be a loner.. fine. But does that mean anyone not like you is weak? No. I don't have many friends. I usually just hang out with my bf. I'm really picky about friends because they generally stab me in the back, but I don't think people with them are weird! Get over yourself. Be a loner, who cares. Just don't bash everyone else!
2006-08-24 03:48:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not wrong to be anti-social to a point. Obviously you have to interact with people everyday whether in a store to purchase something or whatever. To not have any friends is okay. I personally don't like a lot of friends. I have one friend of 12 years who I confide in. Other than that I like to be left alone. My mom says i should have more friends but I tell her I have a lot of acquaintances and that's good enough. She'll get over it. Just worried about you like mom's do.
2006-08-22 20:16:08 · answer #7 · answered by Curious 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
it's wrong to flaunt it around saying that "people with friends are weak and useless" when you're a loner, you're supposed to just shrug off the majority of the population that feels the need to constantly be close to people. You're the black sheep, of course if you take a stab at the lifestyle that 98% of the people live by you're gonna have people getting mad at you. when you're a lone-wolf you're not supposed to be saying that loners are supperior cause then you're just a loner-loser and it makes you look crazy. if you have to say that over and over again, it makes you look like you're insecure about being alone and you really badly want someone to be your friend.
2006-08-16 11:38:49 · answer #8 · answered by Hoojoo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I used to think like you but guess what everybody needs a friend at some point in life. Someone with whom you can laugh, cry and share experiences. There's nothing wrong with a little alone time now & then but you need to go out and socialise. Were you hurt by a friend or did someone betray your confidence to make you feel this way?
2006-08-24 11:15:32 · answer #9 · answered by ivory 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well being a loner is a choice, as to having friends, either way is no better, ppl are weak either way, and are also superior, it is the way someone chooses to live life
2006-08-16 11:30:58 · answer #10 · answered by free2chat_tou 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋