ok at my school the boys are crazy and u see they are the only set of twin girls there........and u know how guys feel about twins...:-( well i luv them to death......but i just dont want them to get hurt like i have in the past .........'cause guys are stupid!!!!! ( no offense to those guys who are actually sincere) so do yall think i should keep all the guys who are bad news away or let them make there own mistakes?????? plzz help me.
2006-08-16 10:53:54 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Do you really have that much time on your hands? Leave them be and let them learn from their own mistakes.
2006-08-16 10:59:14 · answer #1 · answered by I love my husband 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really doesn't matter that you are trying to help them they will see it as you being Territorial and interfering with their lives so the best thing to do is just keep the lines of communication open so you can offer suggestions and hopefully they will come to you before getting involved with the wrong guys.
2006-08-16 18:00:38 · answer #2 · answered by magicboi37 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a little bit of jelousy. You should have more confidnece in your cousins that they can make the right decisions. Let them be, and if you see them talking to some one that you know is no good then you should address the issue with them and let them decide if they want to talk to them or not
2006-08-16 17:59:14 · answer #3 · answered by bella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let them do what they want. But as soon as your cousins notice things are going the wrong direction, they'll soon learn a lesson.
2006-08-16 17:59:18 · answer #4 · answered by |Soldier| 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep them AWAy and show your cousins some examples on how stupid they are
2006-08-16 17:59:23 · answer #5 · answered by Miss Young 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok i understand that u wanna look out for ur cousins cuz they're family and im like that too but u can only do so much to protect them. if they screw up its not ur fault. advise them to be careful but dont blame urself if they mess up
2006-08-16 17:59:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it isnt your place to tell your friends how to run their lives.. let them make their own choices and be supportive. if it turns out you were right then just be there as a shoulder for them.
2006-08-16 18:12:02 · answer #7 · answered by PrincssSarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They need to make there own mistakes, and you may cause problems butting in.
2006-08-16 17:58:57 · answer #8 · answered by oceanjen2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lave them alone.. if you dont leave them alone now thy will get hurt later.... and guys can be even worse jokes when theyre older
2006-08-16 17:58:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you could always advise them on that issue but ultimately they have to decide on their own.
2006-08-16 17:58:37 · answer #10 · answered by Jon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋