okay so I’m in special ed. i "read at a fourth grade level” I’m always hated reading I just didn’t find it fun. My mom says I’m “developementally behind",I believe I’m was born the wrong year. i’m 17 but I get treated like I’m 15. I cant spell and I cant do high school math.i'm going into 11th and i still havent passed algebra one (a month ago I found out how to spell “afraid”) At the end of this last year my school said they cant accommodate to my needs. my school is a small charter school. Can they say that??? I also have a couple behavior issues.
[When I was little I have undiagnosed ADHD. And my father had sex with me, many times. He also physically abused me.]<- told you this so you know why I act the way I do.
So anyways can my little charter school say they cant handle me???
what are your thoughts?
2006-08-16 10:40:05 · 6 answers · asked by .:.:.Mizz_undaStood.:.:. 4 in Education & Reference ➔ Special Education
mimi your a jerk!!!....there is noo freaking way i'm jsut lazy.....your soo mean!
2006-08-16 10:48:57 · update #1
To my understanding, yes. Charter schools aren't held to the same standards (such as No Child Left Behind) as public schools. The reason is that they are considered "experimental." Considering the horrible events that have happened to you, I believe your performance is caused more by psychological trauma than cognitive (mental) ability. I would suggest speaking to your guidance counselor about your past and the challenges you are facing in school. The most important thing for you to know is that it isn't your fault. Anyone who has been through what you have been through would have the same trouble in school that you are.
I'm assuming you have, but have you told anyone about the sexual abuse, and if you have, is he behind bars? If not, tell your counselor. You should not have to live like this.
2006-08-16 11:24:18 · answer #1 · answered by James F 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to hear about this, but do not let a learning challenge hold you back. I have always disliked reading too. However along the way I managed to earn four college degrees. In fact at one time I even taught at a major university. I was only given a 50/50 chance of making a C average by the ACT test. The point I am trying to make is that some of us just don't fit the system, and that is ok. Find what you like and pursue it. About your past abuse, it seems like that is always in the back of one's mind...I know, but that too doesn't always have to ruin the rest of your life. Try to one day find peace with those who really care about you, and will help you move forward. p.s.: the charter school has to reasonablly accomodate these needs if they are reieving any state or federal funding. My guess is that they aren't. However your state may have a way of dealing with this school, which seems to have a behavior problem of its own
2006-08-16 10:55:37 · answer #2 · answered by Kirk 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, most charter schools do have the right to remove you from their school. They don't have to abide by most state laws regarding schools because they are not publicly funded. If they say that they do not discriminate somewhere in their motto or in the packet they gave you when you first entered school, then you may be able to convince them that they are going against policy. I am sorry that you have been through so much, but if you need to talk, I'm here.
For your developmental needs, you can find a school in your area that specializes in helping underdeveloped students. The Sylvan Learning Center offers help and advice in this area. Also, talk to your charter school's counselor or headmaster to see if they can suggest schools that are appropriate for you.
You may want to join a support group or seek therapy for your past. I have been told that it helps greatly, and it will help you to feel better about yourself. You will discover what is holding you back. People can help you, and you may even improve in your educational skills.
I hope this helps, and I wish you all the happiness you deserve!!
2006-08-16 10:52:13 · answer #3 · answered by newsblews361 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My thoughts are that you've lived a pretty tough existence. But luckily you have been brave enough to survive. So Bravo to you!!! It's to bad that you have been labeled, but very understanding that you have acted out. I am not an American but am a next door neighbour and know that here in Canada the education system would have to accomodate your special needs. Perhaps there is a special school you could attend or else you could talk with a guidance cousellor and perhaps they could try and speak up on your behalf to the school district. Best of luck to you in life, and keep your head up as you have nothing to be ashamed of.
2006-08-16 10:50:09 · answer #4 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first you need to get some help with your problem... talk to someone and tell them what youa re feeling. see if you can get a recomendation to go toanother school that you can accomodate.. sry bout the situation with your dad and for that you need to get some help with as well. after that evry thing else will come one step at a time...
2006-08-16 10:49:27 · answer #5 · answered by stupidgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
other than your history, you sound fine to me...why are you in special ed?? your question was very understandable, and your spelling and grammer are fine...i think you should talk to your mom and your guidance counselers...i think you're just lazy in school...
2006-08-16 10:46:56 · answer #6 · answered by alfjr24 6 · 0⤊ 6⤋