hi, im goin to this resort in greece, these type of holidays are called markwarners, they are mainly watersports kind of holidays. so people who go there are mainly english which is great. so they have groups 4 kids any age up to 18. and they do activities 4 them. well this is my 7th time goin and i will feel so left out, im not really fat but im not skinny, i have a few spots and i always feel left out when i go because all the other teens are beautiful, and stunning and rich. i know this seems silly. but as ive got older i have become so shy and have lost all my confidence. how can i make friends there? without getting so upset and a bit jealous.
2006-08-16 10:27:14 · 11 answers · asked by Lizzie J 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body
wear stuff that u are comfortable in...don't let it bother you so much, and just be nice to everyone....not too cheery though cuz that can be annoying.....but be freindly and nice and that way, even if you went naked, everyone will notice your personality instead. which should be the only thing that matters anyway, right?!
2006-08-16 10:35:03 · answer #1 · answered by ~*REBORN*~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you seem to be a nice person, so im sure you will make friends there! treat those kids as you want them to treat you. dont be jealous, i bet you have lots of good skills, plus you are nice. and id rather have a friend like you, than one thinks she is the prettiest girl in the world ;-) plus i bet there are some ways to cheat, so you feel better and more secure...you could bound a rag around your hips or something stuff like that will help you to feel better and it will work...but dont change yourself, let those kids get to know you just the way you are...you should always be yourself when you want to make new friends :-) you should look forward to your holiday and to make new friends! if there are any kids who dont like you because of your look, then hey are not worth being your friends! then they will never change...but i know how you feel, kids can be so cruel when its about the look...but trust me, just be yourself...let them like you for who you are, not for what you are...wishing you lots of fun in your holiday
2006-08-16 10:39:51 · answer #2 · answered by simi1808 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2006-08-16 10:33:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have spots and you r blaming yourself???comeon...
Look at the mirrior again please, you r beautiful...
And i think there are people like to tell you that you look beautiful.
But you may expect people to tell you " hi Lizzie,I like to tell you how you r beautiful inside and outside".... thats more important i think.
So why to worry anymore!
Cheer up.
2006-08-16 10:38:43 · answer #4 · answered by ferhat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when I feel this way. I usually take a friend, cause then you wont feel left out.
2006-08-16 10:37:38 · answer #5 · answered by th1gurl23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just try to have fun and dont worry about what other ppl might think of you.. just b your self dont try to b anyone that ur not.. and dont b shy..
2006-08-16 10:36:00 · answer #6 · answered by pixiejvgurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wear a bikini with some touches of your own
2006-08-16 10:37:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry about what people r thinking.try to make new friends.
good luck
2006-08-16 10:34:33 · answer #8 · answered by spicket 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let them get to know the real you. if they focus on your appearance more then theyre just apperance judging bastards!
2006-08-16 10:33:25 · answer #9 · answered by tony's girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go and have fun.
2006-08-16 10:33:04 · answer #10 · answered by sweenygirll 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋