HI i am 13, i am straight, i have a boy frriend, and i love boys. So about 3 months ago i looked at porn, i kind of liked it. But now i am scared that i am bi sexual because i looked at wemon naked. I have been so scared that i am bi, i have been crying, i have been looking all over the web, i took about 5 quizzes on the web, and they all said i am straight. But like i said for the last couple of days i have been making myself crazy, i have been looking at girls and when i look at then i get this wired feeling "down there" but i dont mean to (i also have a bladder infection). But i dont want to be bi. I dont want to have sex. or a relation ship. i can not stop worring about this. can some one please HELP me!!!??
2006-08-16 09:55:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
At your age it is perfectly normal to have some curiosity about the same sex. I did the same thing when I was your age now I'm 16 and would never do it again because you grow more sexually and you realize that you are only attracted to one sex and that is males. Good luck and don't fret over it!
2006-08-16 10:07:57 · answer #1 · answered by Kacey 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you need to calm down. Take a deep breath and try to relax about all this. Just because you watched women engaging in a sexual activity doesn't mean you're bi-sexual...even if what you saw aroused you...it still doesn't mean you're bi-sexual, or homosexual.
Human sexuality is a very complex thing, and it's perfectly NORMAL for a heterosexual person to have fantasies of homosexuality. You're normal. Don't worry about it.
You're very young, and you're just starting out on this journey of sexual discovery. It will take time for you to learn about your own sexuality, and curiosity is a very healthy part. It's a lifelong journey and it can be confusing and scary.
Try talking to an adult you trust about this...a teacher, your doctor, your aunt, a friend...heck, even your parents. Remember, we were all 13 once too...and probably felt the same things you're feeling now.
2006-08-16 17:10:38 · answer #2 · answered by rhubarb3142 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
girl, u just need to take a chill pill!!!!!! its okay if ur bi- im not but i have some friends that are- and they act and are normal! i dont think that u r bi though, did u like the pictures? and that wierd feeling might have something to so with ur bladder infection! its okay, just relax and think!!!!!
2006-08-16 17:03:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
calm down. at 13 being curious is normal. maybe you just wanted to know what you will look like one day. i am not bi but i am not against it. but since you dont want to be, just tell yourself youre not. convince urself ur not.
2006-08-16 17:23:45 · answer #4 · answered by um yea hi 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Relax. It is normal.. Take a deep breath.
2006-08-16 17:09:32 · answer #5 · answered by honeyluv_2010 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋