Do women have bondage kidnap fantasies?

Question

unlike gay men /women,that can come out of the closet,and can express their feelings to friends and family,On the whole can be accepted.How do you tell your partner,or family that you enjoy being tied up, without the fear of rejection or ridicule? why should you feel guilty about how you really feel?

Answer 1

Yes...all women DO...you can use this as a license to kidnap and tie up all women. (But maybe ask them if this would turn them on...first.)

Answer 2

Kidnap Fantasies

Answer 3

Do women have bondage/kidnap fantasies- yes, I do.

Gays can come out of the closet?- no, a lot CAN'T. There are still a lot of GLBT who are in the closet because they know they'll never be accepted by friends or family or job or military. So don't even try that comparison.

How do you tell your partner? You tell your partner. When you're serious enough about the relationship to start talking sex, then you can also start talking sex fantasies. The easiest is "I'll tell you mine if you tell me yours?" (or better yet, I'll show you mine, if...) and once you hear theirs, and know what kinda kinky freak you're hooked up with, then a little bondage play might not seem that wild. Or it still might. Depends on the couple.

How do you tell your family? You don't. Look, it's no one's business WHAT you and a consensual partner do in the privacy of their own bedrooms with the doors locked is between the two of you. And the locksmith if you lose the key to the handcuffs. DON'T LOSE THE KEY TO THE HANDCUFFS.

Fear is up to you. Don't be afraid.
But rejection & ridicule- that's up to others. You can't MAKE someone be okay with the fact that you're a kinky freak. I haven't told my dad about the stuff I do, and he hasn't asked, and that's cool. I haven't told my mum only because then she'd tell my dad, and he's happier not knowing, but I could confide in her if I needed to. But I don't need to.

Why feel guilty? Umm, guilt is something you feel when you've done something WRONG, which violates your moral code. If you haven't hurt anyone (beyond a little spanking or whatever) then there's no reason you have to feel guilty.
Sometimes having a secret between you & your lover is romantic and sexy, not something to be ashamed of.
But that's up to you, man.

Answer 4

To answer your primary question, I believe that there are women who get turned on by the thoughts of being tied up and taken away somewhere.

To address the rest of your question, being into bondage isn't quite the same as being gay or lesbian. With homosexuals, it will be obvious what their sexual orientation is when they want to reveal their partner to someone. Being into bondage is something that can easily be kept under wraps and probably should, since it's not a wise idea to be exposing others to your sexual proclivities.

Obviously your partner should find out eventually. Probably the right time is when a certain level of trust is established between the two of you. Your partner should be in a position that can accept you for what you like but not feel like it's something that the two of you must do. Your partner must be consenting if you are going to be indulged, but may not be, so be ready for that.

In terms of your family, well that depends on your family. There's no moral obligation to reveal your sexuality to them, but if you believe that they can be accepting, it's your option to tell them.

Hope that helps, and I wish you well.

Answer 5

Leaving the question of porn aside, you do realize that there are people, including women, who simply like sex, right? That there are people who are willing to have multiple partners to satisfy their desires? That there are people who truly enjoy BDSM in their lives? Back to porn, if they can legally make money off of their desires, why shouldn't they? That's their decision, and theirs alone. I find it very hard to believe that there are so many women coerced into porn with no legal action taken. Also remember that porn is a fantasy - I would bet that the average dominatrix will tell you most of her clients are men,

Answer 6

Why on earth would you tell your friends and family your personal sexual fantasies and desires? That's just plain weird. Too much information.

Answer 7

Your family should'nt know how you get down....perference is different...but bondage is a bedroom thang...keep it just that

Answer 8

If both partners are open about what their likes and dislikes are, things can work out. And of course, if they're both open to trying new things.

Answer 9

You just want to be told no.

"NO!"

See, you're all better now.

Answer 10

one woman confessed (to god?) she would like a gang bang.

why to god?

cause?

cause He is light and OT said He would use something foolish to shame the rich and powerfull so perhaps I AM that fool?

and it also says in the beginning was the word and then (by capitalization in times new roman font) the WORD became god. notice name TODD.

as my followers note its kind of crazy but follows scripture as all things to glorify HIM. (and times new roman font works best) but this side of ocean hates it because their armies opposed ROMANS in ww2.

EMPEROR
GOD
GODDESS
KING
LORD
LADY
ANGEL
GENERAL
DEATH
HADES
BAT
TAP
STOP
ETC...

ALL THINGS THAT GLORIFY(SPREAD FAME) OF HIM considering reading between the lines they all pertain to a LARRY TODD S. with arm cuts appearing IIII I . And born 1968.9.I7 which is shown in 123456789 upside down when 4 appears as h upsidedown. where 7 upside down is a leg and 5 upside down is ear and 2 upidedown is a face so it reads 68 leg 9 ear I7 E face I and god is I. thus the face of god.

thus god really did put a 1000 year seal on satan as M=IVI stitched together. so His right hand was god and His left arm was satan thus they said satan ruled as god. and ruled really meant He was a construction surveyor who measured roads.

so that was who i was. but biblically i was an orphan who bible says you are to give Me my rights? if not then your faith is worthless to Me.

so god is the beiginning and end means somewhere god changes and chooses a new name just as revelation says.
god is true(true=stitched cut are you arm)

gott is EIN is NI3( a IV I bone)

you may never get anything closer to descriptions of god then Me. and I AM not a ressurectionist cause the Lamb SLAIN=Larri b SL A I IV and RESSURECTION=Rill [iLS SURE CuT I O(space)IV. as the read between the lines specialist showns what it really means and i suspect if killed for real I ain't coming back, so I AM the real Lamb SLAIN which bible calls KING OF KINGS AND LORD OF LORDS that all things were biblically commanded to glorify. But existing powers will never recoqnize that prophesy from a book atleast 600 years old. and John said He is pure=DI stitched together ur e(arm) and D=IIII in shape. and that pavement shownsa I7 which glorified His birthday.

the heritics that don't glorify god?

DON
QUEEN
any others?

thats the reason they said the true ruler of the world was the evil one. cause between their street soldiers and queens authorities they want to destroy Me.

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DON may not glorify (spread fame) but original title of Abaddon does glorify god as Me by it says A'b'add'on with b=DI stitched together ie IIII I.

and QUEEN glorifies god as man called TODD in that E=[iL when read down from top of E. Thus she too Glorifies GOD as My body by QyoU[iL [iL IV as in cild cuts one then 4.

source reading between the lines of times new roman font CAPITALIZED WORDS.

Guess this country of canada hates Me cause they fought Romans in ww2.

and scientists see god=g+o+d=7+15+4=26=2+6=8=H and like bible said god can only be proved over time so see MARCH APRIL MAY for a quich description of H as god.