what if a guy: tells a woman that he loves her 'n wants a future with her..He wont talk about sex coz he wants to get to know her first..He wants what she wants coz he loves her so much.. wants to know what her family and friends think of him..Tells the woman that she's beautiful..Asked her more than once to believe that he really loves her,he's tryin to do it right this time,she must never doubt his love..BUT..He's got a girlfriend he wants to dump 'n he attends to the woman he said he loves regardless if the girlfriend is there or not..
2006-08-16 09:37:26 · 25 answers · asked by penda 3 in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body
i 4got..he's still with the girlfriend coz the woman he says he loves told him she doesnt want to be the cause of the breakup (so in other words he must break it off in his own time)..'n she can only be with him next year (thats another long story on its own,but it doesnt involve another guy)...
2006-08-16 09:47:49 · update #1
that is your man don't lose him
2006-08-23 14:52:19 · answer #1 · answered by hashem a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him honey I was in the same situation only with a married man, he said that they were seperated but he was still in the house for the kids and finally when he moved out on his own and I did all of the work helping him he dumped me for a 20 year younger woman. If you let them lead you one and keep using you you will end up really hurt and dissapointed not only in him but in yourself too. Good Luck
2006-08-22 22:22:24 · answer #2 · answered by myragdollcat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me it sounds as if this gentleman may know what a woman is looking for and maybe sincere but afraid to leave what he is grown so accustomed to because that would mean he has to change. From my experiences most men seem to be afraid to make a commitment to the unknown. So as long as they can keep both they are content. It allows them to remain in an environment that they are used to but allows them to maintain the affection that they are looking for.
2006-08-22 11:47:44 · answer #3 · answered by Chinesa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounded like he really loved her untill you mentioned he has some other girlfriend. if he really loved the girl, he would dumb his girlfriend on his own and be with the one he loves. but i kinda wouldnt trust him now, cuz it seems like he wants 2 girls, or like he cant make his mind up about some stuff....he could be sayin the same things to her. and if he ended up with the other girl he could always be flirting with another girl or saying the same things to her. ....
just take a break from him, and tell him he needs some time alone to figure things out on his own....if he really loves you, i mean her, then he'll come back to be with her..
2006-08-21 10:26:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The three of them are complete idiots. Both of those women need to drop that zero and get with a hero. He's a deadbeat. He's a user. He's an emotional abuser. He's a rat. Move on!
2006-08-23 14:37:07 · answer #5 · answered by applegirl1976 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is she still even seeing this guy? Is she that desperate? If she believes his line of s*** tell her I own a house in the middle of the Mojave desert with a oceanfront view I'll sell her.
2006-08-20 22:08:06 · answer #6 · answered by Papa WILL 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell him to choose and if he won't then tell him it's over! If he can't break up w/ his current girl for you he apparently love you as much as he claims! He sounds like a two timing dog to me, but you need to give him the ultimatum and if he won't do it leave!
2006-08-16 16:55:02 · answer #7 · answered by leledrums93 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i have been in the same predicament, not so long ago...he ended up completely breaking it off with the "girlfriend" but now she can't stop harrassing him and me and him couldn't be happy with her always stalkin' him. so he ended up moving out of state to get away from her and me and him r no longer together.
2006-08-23 19:38:07 · answer #8 · answered by prchik 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He checking out on the otherside of the fence. He will do it to the next girl too?!
2006-08-24 06:24:15 · answer #9 · answered by lew_lewisje 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop him! He's way too smooth. If he can dump his gf for this other girl, what makes u think he wouldn't do it to her again?
2006-08-24 14:52:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does the girlfriend even know....forget it!! Imagine what he'd do after you. Same episode?
2006-08-24 11:01:16 · answer #11 · answered by Haney H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋