Why is it that women/girls who don't want to get pregnant, can and?

Question

women who want them , have so much trouble? I'm not saying all, but doesn't it seem to any of you that the roles should be switched? Why not let the women who honestly deserve and want a baby get pregnant, and the ones who could care less and hate their children have the troubles? It's just not fair. To both the women and the babies

Answer 1

Maybe it is becasue they are not stressed and the women who really want kids and have been trying really hard are stressed out about it.

Answer 2

Are you reading my mind? LOL!! I asked my husband the same question on Monday (after I had received a negative pregnancy test done by blood). My friends keep on telling me that it is from stress. They say that women who want to get pregnant stress themselves out so much by trying and worrying about it. It's just not fair that a woman who doesn't want kids can get pregnant easier than a woman who is trying to conceive... but then again... as they say... life is not fair. I wish you the best of luck!!

Answer 3

It's not fair. I'm married and don't want children - I'm 28 - and on birth control. I know I would probably get pregnant very quickly if I got off the pill simply because I don't want to...

I think it comes down to desire -- I think some women who want kids worry so much about it that they can't get pregnant due to the insane worrying. If they would relax, it would probably happen.

Answer 4

My gosh isn't that the truth!! I have been there. I think what it is more of is that women who have trouble tend to notice things more. Menaing that if they see a pregnant teen or another woman who doesn't look like she should be pregnant and is fact pregnant it hurts a lot. I agree with you it's not fair!!!

Answer 5

I absolutely know what you mean. My hubby has a child with another woman (before we were ever together!!!) Well, my SD's mother has 6 children total...none of which she takes very good care of! (my SD lives with us...hubby got full custody!) She is on every type of state and federal aid she can get on and still can't manage to properly care for her kids!

As for me and hubby, we have been TTC for almost 2 months now...before then we weren't exactly careful about not getting prego, but weren't real worried about it either...that was for about 3 years. So, we are TTC now, reading books, charting my BBT, ov tests and I'm getting frustrated already!!

I just have a hard time understanding why that woman can have a billion kids, but I haven't and may never have any....
I guess it boils down to ....

Life Isn't Fair!!

Answer 6

I think because the prior are sluts and the latter are usually married and wanting to start a family. I would assume that even if the married couple has sex every night their likelihood of getting pregnant would decrease because they work during the day so they have less time to have sex; their sperm is weaker from being worn out from just daily tasks. Whereas its usually young slutty girls who get pregnant and young boys have healthier sperm and more time to conceive.

Answer 7

well you have to keep in mind every thing happens for a reason...i knew this reslly sweet sweet lady 33yrs old wanted a baby so bad and all the rest of her family had three or more kids she loved to watch and play with every one else kids her family was wild and neglectful to there children and i feel didnt need any but two days before her next birthday she had a heart attack and died now what if she would have had kids who would have watched them not her family they didnt want their own....and me i really didnt want any i was wild and in the streets partying and i wond up pregnant and it changed my life i stopped partying and now im a changed person aint no telling what would have happened if it wasnt for my kids.

Answer 8

I think its because the girls that don't want to arn't paying attention to it then one day they are pregnant. The girls that do want to are paying attention and tracking it instead of relaxing and letting nature take its course. If you look at it this way have sex every day for a full month and you bound to become pregnant. It worked for me.

Answer 9

um hey for the ppl who dont want the baby i'm sure they would love to switch roles but hey its not possible and if u cant have a baby on your own there are other options and hey if u dont want the other options well that's your problem

Answer 10

Isn't that the truth and then some of them don't realize the gift it is to be pregnant and go and abort them because they don't want them I find this to be very sick!