Why should it matter what two - or hell, three or four - adults do in the bedroom? No one else has to see it, it dosn't involve children, what's the harm in allowing people to have sex how they want, with whom they want? Once you reach the legal age, it should be up to you what sort of sexual encounters you have, not the government or any church (expecially if, like me, you don't belong to that church).
What do you think?
2006-08-16 09:24:22 · 21 answers · asked by Girl Wonder 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
I completely agree with you. I have been saying the very same thing for years! I have come to the conclusion that some people are very closed minded and judgmental towards others, but not themselves. Ever noticed how the same people that say things like "that's disgusting" or "people like that are going to hell" NEVER think ANYTHING that they do is considered wrong and NEVER believe nor will admit that they are wrong? Hmm....maybe they are just trying to deflect attention from what they do on to others and judging those others makes them feel better about themselves. Now THAT is sick.
2006-08-16 09:51:11 · answer #1 · answered by baby_doll 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
the ones that are complaining is morally oppressed and sexually frustrated
picture this for a moment - you finally get to the age of 90, sitting on a sunny porch...reflecting on your '' acrobatics" in the bedroom when you were younger...that will place a smile on your face.
on the other hand, if you regarded it as an obligation to your hubby.. well, what will you have to smile about.
better keep the kleenex handy grandma.
2006-08-17 16:15:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to rain on your parade. The answer is in the societal concept of what is moral and not moral. If you don't believe in moral standards set up by God, then you are probably right, what two or more adults consent to do by way of sexual encounters is nobody else's business. However, most of America still believes in God given moral standards of conduct that are beneficial to society when obeyed and harmful to society when disobeyed. Sex was ordained to be shared between husband and wife for the purpose of establishing family units, the building block of society. When sex is engaged in for recreational purposes without the responsibility inherent therein, society suffers. Whether promiscuous heterosexual acts or homosexual acts, it is all contrary to the functioning of a moral society. When personal behavior breaks down then societal behavior is not far behind.
2006-08-16 16:36:14 · answer #3 · answered by rac 7 · 0⤊ 3⤋
I'll say it like this, how are people goin to know what is goin on in ur bedroom if u are not broadcasting it?
I view it sorta like the limewire/p2p deal, may be illegal, but as long as you don't tell a cop that, you goin to be alright.
2006-08-17 17:28:32 · answer #4 · answered by WhiteHat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was gona write a silly answer, but to be honest it shouldnt mater what you do, and that you should be able to be open and honest about your sex life with out being graphic or pushing it in peoples faces-who arnt comfortable with your likes.
Like it shouldnt be a big deal if freinds know that you like sex with more than one person, etc... what ever your kink is.
Unfortuantly life is that there is alot of people who like to help oppress others into to hiding their sexuality,preferances and sex life- if it doesnt fit into the sterio-typed norm.
2006-08-16 16:34:00 · answer #5 · answered by robynbiker 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
The U.S. Supreme Court ruled 6-3 that sodomy laws are unconstitutional on June 26, 2003.
2006-08-16 16:30:40 · answer #6 · answered by Harry_Cox 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
What you do in the privacy of your bedroom is your business as long as it is not illegal. What a couple decides is fun to them may not be fun to someone else but that does not make it wrong!
2006-08-16 16:36:31 · answer #7 · answered by cytopia1 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
whatever consenting, unrelated adults do in private is no one else's business, as long as no one is getting hurt.
and the crude and hateful redcatt63 above is nothing but an IMPOSTOR! everyone knows I'm not nasty and hateful like that!
2006-08-17 20:44:59 · answer #8 · answered by redcatt63 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree, once you are the legal consenting age, no-one should come in your way as long as everyone is consenting. I heard something about anal sex is not legal in some states. E-mail me!
2006-08-16 16:30:16 · answer #9 · answered by questionhere 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Some people are just busybodies and can't let others live their lives. I often think it is because many people are curious about alternatives but too scared to try them out. Thus they become resentful of people who do.
2006-08-16 16:34:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋