why do my friend always attract guys? she is normal and well she's not beautiful. some girls in my group are alot more beautiful thank her but alot of guys are still attracted to her. even they don't know her before. yeah maybe i am jealous but i still want to know why?and all i said is true.
2006-08-16 09:23:16 · 13 answers · asked by vimsy 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Hi,
First of all in my experience girls are not good judges of whether another girl is attractive to buys. Also, I am often more attracted to a women by her personality than looks alone.
2006-08-16 09:28:38 · answer #1 · answered by phoneypersona 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend may not be beautiful in your eyes but it sounds as if she oozes sexuality. It's called animal magnetism - you either have it or you haven't. She is probably different to the normal run of the mill cute girls you are talking about. She may be more natural, less bitchy and more interesting and fun than the other girls. If you really want to know why don't you try asking some of the guys ?
2006-08-16 16:42:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder, so for guys generally if it attraction then it may not just be the facial features but other things that make up your friend. Her physical assets, friendly behavior, dress sense etc
2006-08-16 16:31:30 · answer #3 · answered by R R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe her personality is outgoing? Maybe her body or breasts are attracting them? But remember, alot of guys only want one thing and that is sex so she may be giving the wrong signals to these guys as well or flirting with them. Dont be jealous, your turn will come. :) Just be happy being you and not wanting to be someone else or like them. :)
2006-08-16 16:29:17 · answer #4 · answered by yeppers 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if might just be the fact that
A) she has a personality guys like
B) she's more comfortable w/guys, and that makes them comfortable
C) (you won't believe this!) some guys are intimidated buy attractive girls! they might be more comfortable w/this not as beautiful girl w/a nice personality.
D) maybe all your other friends try to hard, and she doesn't, maybe the guys like that....?
hope that helps!
2006-08-16 16:31:22 · answer #5 · answered by blue_eyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might have the personality that guys respond to. Maybe, she knows better how to talk to guys. Guys don't always go for the pretty girls but for the interesting ones.
2006-08-16 16:35:28 · answer #6 · answered by karen wonderful 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beauty is only skin deep. People can see through that. People like HER because she IS NORMAL!!! She has "substance" that people are drawn to. It is not ALWAYS looks that attract. She's got all the points in her favor, including mine!!!!
2006-08-16 16:32:14 · answer #7 · answered by kristy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she has lots of charisma, or comes off as confident.
people that are comfortable in there own skin are alot more attactive then people who question weather they are good enough fit enough etc. if you think that your not good enough for a guy he might begin to question it as well, so just act confident and that your a great caught then that's what you'll get!
2006-08-16 16:30:31 · answer #8 · answered by enigma 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your friend has a high level of confidence and she shows it, there's a very good chance that's what it is. She may have an amazing personality or, she may fit *their* taste in beauty, even if she doesn't fit yours.
2006-08-16 16:31:27 · answer #9 · answered by dresden28 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's is nothing sexier than brains. Maybe she's just smart and engaging.
2006-08-16 16:30:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋